(Closed) Do you like being at home alone?

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Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

First off, how scary to have had a break in! I’m glad you’re okay and please, always make sure you have a phone with a full charge and at the very least a Louisville slugger in the room with you just for peace of mind.

My guy travels fairly regulary for work. He’s usually gone for about a week at a shot but sometimes it’s two. I’ve found that when he’s gone for one week I’m fine but when it goes to two I have trouble. I’m a pretty independent person and I have three kids so there’s always something to do and it’s not that I’m lonely precisely… But the fact is I miss him!

I’ve found that talking twice a day on the phone and emailing or IMing regulary cuts down on the blues and planning a date for the day after his return makes it all bearable. Our favorite "dates" are a good home cooked meal and an evening together on the couch watching TV or a movie (thank goodness for my parents who take the kids regulary on the weekends and early bedtimes on school nights!).

 

 

Post # 4
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601 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

oh my gosh how heart stopping scary!  thank goodness you’re alright.

I’m home alone ALOT.  Unfortunately my hubby and I still have to live apart, its very difficult but we know we will be able to be under the same roof soon.  Being 5 hours away stinks though.  I have a lot of nightmares and when I wake up I wish he was here to just sort of bring me back to reality….   (sigh)

Post # 5
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948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2018 - Coyaba Resort, Montego Bay

Glad you’re both safe & that nothing happened past the attempt.  Scary, though!

I LOVE being alone.  I love being with Mr. Q as well, so we just find a balance between the two.  It works quite nicely 

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Wow so scary to have someone violate your house like that!  Fiance and I spend every night together and I honestly couldn’t have it any other way. I can’t sleep without him there, and I don’t like being alone at night.  I usually get home from work a couple hours before him, so that gives me the me time that I need. Also, he works most Saturdays so I get them to myself, which I usually spend hanging out with friends and family.  But I also have a lot of school stuff that I do at night, so during the week sometimes I don’t see him til 9 or 10 at night.  I feel like the balance we have works, and if there is ever a time either of us needs some alone time, alls we have to do is ask

Post # 7
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216 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2018 - Outdoor ceremony, banquet hall reception

Yikes! I’m so glad you’re OK!

I LOVE being home alone. Always have. I’m so rarely alone, it gives me a chance to just enjoy the quiet.

Post # 8
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796 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

I love being alone. For example, the Mr. is away on his bachelor party weekend and I couldn’t wait for him to go and give me the house all to myself!

Lillindy, your story is so scary, because I like being in the house alone, but find it really scary to sleep alone. This makes me so mad at myself sometimes, a grown woman afraid of the dark, but ever since we moved in together it’s been hard for me to sleep by myself.

Post # 9
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497 posts
Helper bee

Yeah, Mr Corn is a work traveller so he isn’t here from Mon-Thurs…but it has been that way for most of our relationship, save for a few months here and there when he has been working in town.  I miss him, but we talk every night.  Now that I am preggers, I actually like having more room in the bed 🙂 

We ended up getting an alarm system for our house…mostly because we live in an urban area that does see a small amount of random crime.  But it definitely gives me peace of mind for when he isn’t here.

Post # 10
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7082 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

I would have been totally freaked out by the attempted break in.  I had someone try to climb in my bathroom window once when I was home.  I still sometimes flash back to that.

As for being alone though, I love it.  We were long distance for 2 years, so I really fully developed a love for alone time because I had to. I have little alone rituals and treats that make it fun.  I still miss him ridiculously when he’s gone, especially if its more than 1 or 2 nights, but I enjoy my time alone as well.

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