(Closed) Do you like favours that have the couple's names and wedding date on it?

posted 7 years ago in Favors
  • poll: Do you like favours that have the couple's names and wedding date on it?



  • Post # 3
    1830 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @Orion:  I was going to do the name thing, but was told by the venue manager not to bother. She said that the vast majority are left behind and discarded by the staff afterwards. Apparently if it’s not something you can eat, people have no interest.

    Post # 4
    10035 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Anything with another couple’s name or date on it is getting left behind or tossed. Sorry! lol


    Post # 5
    1117 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I would love pretty much anything! And I love having things with the couple’s names on them, because I love being able to look at it and remember their special day and their special love!

    I went to a wedding once for an older couple where they gave out these adorable personalized notepads,with heart and their names and date at the top. Those were useful and cute!

    Post # 6
    11259 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @Orion:  please don’t personalize anything.  it will get tossed or left behind.

    Post # 7
    105 posts
    Blushing bee

    We have a shot glass from a couples wedding. And we do use it every now and then. But it just goes right in our other stack of cheap/travel shot glasses.

    I think the general consensus is to go with food

    Post # 8
    9274 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    Not sure how old your mother is but my mother who is over 60 thinks they are as big a waste of money as I do.

    Post # 9
    11515 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @Orion:  unless you’re my BFF or my sibling I probably don’t want something with your wedding date and your names on it.

    I would probably leave it at the table – actually, no, I’d take it to be polite and then it would sit in my clutch until the next wedding/event I needed the clutch for, this happens often.

    Post # 10
    1924 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I just don’t understand what I’m supposed to do with something with another couple’s name on it?  Just weird.

    Go edible or nothing at all.  I didn’t have favors, and it was a good decision!

    Post # 11
    543 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Waste of money. I agree it will get left behind, thrown out or act as another fine contribution to a junk drawer. Send a photo with a thank you card and that will serve as a nice reminder. People can choose to put it up on their fridge or toss it and it will cost less than a personalized favor. 


    Post # 12
    2889 posts
    Sugar bee

    The only I care about are my parents and grandparents … So I’d say, have a few engraved champagne glasses that can become an heirloom. I’m sure your kids will appreciate it when they’re adults.

    But other than that, I wouldn’t keep the personalized favors, no. I like my home to have space, to be decorated to my taste, I really don’t want to have random 2$ favors here and there just to be polite. And I have no need for multiple bottle openers or wine stoppers or keyholders. I think they’re a waste of money and unfortunately, they encourage useless consumerism and the overall waste that goes with it. 

    Post # 13
    910 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I like usable wedding favors that are not personalized…..

    My favorites include wine stoppers and little picture frames…


    Post # 14
    4354 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    I will personally leave behind anything with someone else’s names and dates on them. The only thing I’ve taken with a name was a beer koozee that said something like “You survived Name and Name’s Wedding” with the date, because the was kind of cute. Other than that, I honestly don’t know what to do with them. I’m not going to put it out in my house because, I’m sorry if this seems blunt, I’m not going to want to honor or remember your wedding by displaying an item five or six years down the line. 

    If you give me something I can eat, I will love you forever.

    Post # 15
    261 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I once received a big crystal heart with the couple’s names and date lasered into it…I think it was meant to be a paper weight but who uses paper weights nowadays??


    I’m going to offer smores kits at my wedding as well as a set of coasters with our monogram branded into it.  HOWEVER, I feel like you could just take that coaster home and flip it over.  Then it’s a nice wooden coaster!  Still a waste of money??  Maybe.  We cut the wood ourselves so we really only paid for the brand, not too bad…right?  :p

    Post # 16
    4649 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @Orion:  Edible, drinkable, or don’t waste your money. (Actually I personally love little plants/cacti but I might be in the minority.) Doesn’t matter how much I love you or your wedding, any random trinket with your stuff on it is gonna get lost. 

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