(Closed) Do you love weddings more after having your own?

posted 6 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@AnnieAAA:  Girl, I totally feel the SAME way! My husband thinks I’m so ridiculous – but in reality, he’s like that too. 🙂 We both love going to weddings, and just love what happy day it is for everyone!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Me too! I kind of really hated weddings prior to my own to be honest. Now whenever someone I know is getting married I’m like “do you need any help?” It was a fun process and I definitely have more of an appreciation for the work that goes into making one perfect!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I was pretty neutral to weddings until Darling Husband and I started talking about getting engaged. Then I couldn’t get enough and I still LOVE weddings but it is definitely with a different attitude. Before my wedding, I felt like part of me was always cataloging things. Ooh, I like these favors; Hmm, taking that shuttle was annoying; I wonder who did the catering; etc. I was really into the details and probably had a better appreciation for them/ a more critical eye.

Now, I’m just like… wedding!! Woooo!!! Hahaha, I love going and just having fun and celebrating the couple without worrying about how it compares to what I would have done. There are occasional twinges of, “how soon can I do a vow renewal?” but other than that, I’m totally over the planning bit and very into the celebrating part. 

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

i hate weddings now.. i get jealous looking at peoples wedding pictures

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@asianyoushi:  Thats all me!!! I get sad, and makes my self-esteem low, I’m usually photogenic on regular pictures, but the day of my wedding with so much stress I feel “BLAH” “MEH” AND i dont think the pictures project the love my husband and I have for each other! Due to so many people and events stressing us out. Its been over a year and I cant over come the feeling…. =(

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I totoally like weddings more now because I appreciate all the hard work that goes into planning them and all the excitment! 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

i didnt get all the photos i wanted, the photos from the ceremony to reception i looked stressed and worried and not pretty.. photos from before ceremony my hair was not great and make up looked eh… ( i did change the hair and make up for the ceremony since i did cry most of it off during the emrgency. )

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I love them more knowing that I didn’t have to plan it…………………………………

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Yes! I never thought much about them, but now I love weddings : )

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@asianyoushi:  on the same boat!.. sorry I know how that feels..

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

I would rather be a guest at somebody else’s wedding. I am excited to be getting married but not excited about the wedding process for myself.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

i feel the same way! I appreciate weddings a lot more and love going to them!

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Yes! Me too!  I love weddings so much now and I keep thinking back to our wedding day and wish I could relive it every day.  Love going to other people’s weddings 🙂

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I love that I’m not the one going through the stress of the wedding planning and I just get to go and enjoy it.

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