MemberI saw this alluded to on another thread and it got me thinking: do you and/or your SO fantasize about other people when you’re having Sex? Celebrities, coworkers, friends, strangers, etc.
MemberWe dont – not yet anyway. I can see this happening in the future though..probably after a few kids and a lot more years together
Member@MrsBaldEagle: haha, good point! Check back with me in 5 years and Channing Tatum might be a little more tempting!
MemberBoth of us fantasise about additional people occasionally, but not other people instead of each other (at least not for me, I can’t speak for him!).
MemberNeither of us do. Lol, at least he better not. Or he is a dead man! 🙂
MemberI don’t…I don’t think I’m imaginative enough to do that haha! He might, I have no idea. But I mean, c’mon, I’m so damn sexy why would he need to 😉 I kid.
MemberI just don’t want to know the details lol. Like don’t tell me that you were picturing kate upton while we were doing the dirty I don’t wanna know! I feel like this is one of those things where ignorance is bliss totally applies. And really how would I ever truly know? Yea I trust Darling Husband to tell me the truth but his thoughts are his own so I can never REALLY know with 100% certainty.
I have on occasion thought of someone else during self love time lol but not during sex with Darling Husband. I think a healthy fantasy once in a while isn’t so bad. I think it’s only a problem if it’s necessary to think of something or someone else to get things going. But if Darling Husband wants to have a kate upton moment then so be it…… just don’t tell me about it! lol
Memberugh welll…i’ve never asked him. BUt i assume he doesn’t. And i dont, though i will admit i am one of those people who is ALWAYS all up in their head, and sometimes my brain wanders to other things. Like “i should clean the floors after this” and then i’m like “SWIZZLE, focus here damn it”
MemberIDK what he thinks about, I’m not in his head. I have on occassion. I don’t see a problem with it.
MemberNot always, but occasionally! Not specific people but more like thinking about a naughty video we watched or something…
MemberEh, it’s so normal to fantasize about someone else every now and then. As long as you don’t announce it to your partner (call out the wrong name OOPS!) it’s harmless. I’m guilty of it sometimes. If he does, so be it, as long as he doesn’t tell me.
MemberHonestly, if he did I would not want to know. I don’t ask because I think it would be weird. 
MemberI have once or twice, but I really don’t have the focus to keep some sort of fantasy going; I tend to just be really in the moment. I have no idea whether or not he does, and I really don’t want to know. What goes on in his head can stay there as far as that’s concerned 😉
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MemberDuring sex I never have. I wouldn’t doubt that I may in time, but right now I don’t. I have no idea if my Fiance ever has, and I’m not going to bother to ever ask. I don’t care.
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