(Closed) Do you or your SO smoke weed?

• LadyPeace
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: October 2013

We smoke maybe once every other week. Or with friends on weekends. But really its just to relax and enjoy. 

• mixtapehearts
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: June 2014

Nope, I like my job and hate drugs. 

• 6598731ssfse3
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: November 2012

Neither of us smoke pot, but both of us are 100% for legalizing marijuana.  

• crayfish
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: September 2010

@little_d:  You live in Vancouver, and think nobody smokes weed anymore? How is that even possible? Vancouver is basically the pot capital of Canada!

We live in the Bay Area where it is rampant and out in the open. I find it pretty disgusting. I don’t understand why it’s ok to make public places smell like burning skunk, or why it’s cool to light up around children. Neither of us smokes.

• MexiPino
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: October 2015

Neither of us do, but I swear sometimes it feels like we’re the only two people on earth who don’t! In California at least. It’s super easy to get a medical MJ card and many of our friends AND FAMILY make liberal use of it. 

• Pinkmoon
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: February 2014

Neither of us do, and we never have. 

• rachelmichelle
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: April 2018

Neither of us has ever even tried it.

I look at where all my friends who did it in high school are today, and that pretty much solidifies my desire to stay as far away from it as humanly possible.

I also have an ethical issue with it, aside from the fact that it’s illegal. I had an International Business professor at university tell us once that she really didn’t care about us smoking pot, that she had no problem with weed itself.

But she wanted us to know that when someone purchases weed, because of the illegality of it and where it’s generally sourced from, it’s pretty much a sure thing that at some point, they are financially supporting the same people who are human traffickers and involved in child sex trade in South America.

I think that’s something that a lot of people really just don’t consider. I hadn’t thought of it before it was pointed out to me.

• tcgstar
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: August 2013

No, neither of us smoke anything.  I’m soooo glad.

• lightmist
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: November 2013

@rachelmichelle:  and that is exactly why i believe it should be legalized. 

• Magdalena
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: December 2011

neither of us do. I believe my husband did in college. I think it’s similar to cigarette smoking where you really need to do it outside as much as possible, or at least in a home that you own and live by yourself in. The smoke makes clothes, houses, cars, people etc totally REEK like puke.

I think I must be super-sensitive to it though, because if other people smelled it like I do, nobody would be smoking.

• niasg1
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: November 1999

Neither have any desire too

• ZoetheMrs
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: September 2012

@lightmist:  +1

I honestly can’t understand how anyone can have a problem with pot but still drink. If you also abstain from alcohol, then that’s a different story and makes more sense to me.

• housebee
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: April 2013

@lightmist:  To me drugs are drugs, doesn’t matter if it’s caffine, or alcohol, or whatever.  Some drugs, like caffine, are manageable for most people in limited amounts.  Other drugs, like meth or heroine, are more harmful.  I see all drugs as crutches that we use to get through life.  Obviously the fewer crutches the better, but as long as you’re responsible for yourself and not hurting anyone, I don’t care what anyone else does.

• WannaBeeMrsB
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: July 2015

We both used to very occasionally in highschool. Neither of us do now. 

• daybyday
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: November 2006

Before we were TTC, it was every day for a few years. Once we started TTC we stopped completely, and I’m now almost seven months pregnant. We don’t have plans to start up again unless it becomes legalized in our state. I have NO problem at all with marijuana but I would feel like a total piece of shit if I ever got busted buying weed as a mom. (And it’s unlikely I’d ever get busted as I’m not buying from high-volume dealers and I only ever smoke in the privacy of my own home, but still.)