(Closed) Do you send “sexy” pictures to your DH for when he’s away from home?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Does your DH have sexy pics of you on his phone/computer for when he's out of town and "misses" you?
    Yep, he's got *those kinds* of pics of me, for sure! : (86 votes)
    58 %
    No, I don't feel comfortable sending those types of pics of myself, even if it's just to DH... : (41 votes)
    28 %
    No, I just haven't done it yet, but I plan to/don't have a problem with it! : (19 votes)
    13 %
    Other...? : (3 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    1245 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I send them to Darling Husband while he’s at work sometimes. He LOVES them! I think it’s really sexy and that he appreciates it. If you don’t feel completely comfortable, make sure you don’t include your face…just the body. πŸ™‚

     

    Edited to say; I usually send pics of me in my undergarments. Very rarely completely nude.

    Post # 4
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    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    How does he want you to send it by email or by phone? Personally  i’m not comfortable sending certain things by email due to hacking and viruses. I had a viruse once that sent out random already sent mails to everybody in my inbox. Yeah not fun.

    Post # 5
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    1404 posts
    Bumble bee

    Why wait until he is out of town?

    Post # 6
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    1245 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    @bells: completely agree! I only send through phone not email.

    Post # 7
    Member
    5011 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    My Fiance is never away from me for more than a few hours, but I have sent him lots of those sorts of pictures in the past. He LOVES them.

    Post # 9
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    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Nope – I don’t know that I want pictures of me (like that) out there in places that can be seen or intercepted by others.  I feel like it is just asking for trouble.

    Post # 10
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    167 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I sent my boobs once through text. (he was not out of town). Big mistake. He sent back little Jessie. I was mortified. I felt like it was completely out of character for him and like I was with a porn star not my sweet fiance. I told him how it made me feel, he apologized and we went back to nudity face to face only, lol! 

    Post # 11
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    1542 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    He always asks for a photoshoot, but I’m not confortable, first of all I don’t love my body and it really creeps me to have those picture out there. But I might consider it sometime.

    Post # 12
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    2584 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @Mrs.KMM: That’s how I feel about it too. I trust my Fiance, but I don’t trust technology and other people πŸ˜›

    @Coffee cup: Yeah, this is the reason I’m considering doing a boudoir shoot- they stay classy enough and make sure you’re comfortable. But I’m really struggling with the cost… they aren’t cheap.

    Post # 13
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    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    @galloway111: Exactly!  It’s the technology that I don’t trust.  I’d have no issue with doing a boudoir shoot and having a photobook in our bedside drawer.  Maybe we’re just strange!

    Post # 14
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    154 posts
    Blushing bee

    I think it’s a sexy thing to do. I also agree you should do what you are comfortable with.

    I keep mine a little lighter and fun. Once while out shopping I tried on some lingere in the store, took a picture in the change room and said I’m thinking of buying this little outfit…

    It is a nice surprise, no weird pressure. it’s kind of cute and they love it!!

    I have also sent other body parts. I never send my head in a nude or innapropriate shot. I agree you never know what glitch could happen and sometimes the guys who love you now may be hurt and angry later. experienced that too. very stressful.  I actually had the police interviene. super embarrassed.   Lived and learned!!  

    Post # 15
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    2496 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    Oh yeah…. we do that. πŸ˜‰

    We’re very, very careful, though, and keep the pictures in secure files on our computers, then delete them from email or our phones.  I also only send them when I know he is expecting something and has his phone/computer with him.  Darling Husband loves it, and I do too.  It’s sexy, makes me feel confident, and I find it’s a good way to maintain intimacy from a distance.  He would never, ever show them around to anyone either.

    If you need ideas, google boudoir pictures, and look at some photography sites for ideas.  It’s not too hard to copy, but just give yourself time and be patient.  Good lighting also helps.

    Post # 16
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    4682 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    Yes. πŸ™‚ Of course he likes it, but it also makes me feel more confident about my body.

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