(Closed) Do you sleep on only one side of the bed?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you sleep on a certain side of the bed?
    Always. : (398 votes)
    87 %
    Most of the time. : (48 votes)
    11 %
    Nope. : (11 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    665 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Darling Husband and I have designated sides of the bed! Even if he is away with work I sleep on my side of the bed 😉 

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    8576 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Yes, we sleep on our own side of the bed.

    I won’t sleep on his side because there’s a rather large sinkhole in the bed from him laying on it, lol.

    Post # 5
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    1902 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I stick to my side of the bed pretty well, my husband on the other hand….

    Post # 6
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    569 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @MeeShell:  +1 same here. My side is my side.  Lol he even says something if my cat is in his spot. She’s a pillow hog lol  so I don’t blame him 😉

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    We each have our sides. It may change when we stay at hotels because my husband wants to be further from the door for some bizarro cop reasoning that I can’t recall exactly at the moment. When he was recovering from shoulder surgery, we switched sides. It didn’t go well.  He ended up sleeping in the other room. 

    He teases me about my being a bed hog but I firmly maintain I am not the bed hogger- he is with his ridicously broad, man shoulders. Seriously, he has 100 pounds on me.  How can be the bed hog?  Silly husband!

    Post # 8
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    1006 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I sleep on my side plus half of his side.  We recently switched sides, though- my bed has to be against the wall because the room is so small and I am currently on the outside because he likes the way the wall side of the mattress feels better (?).  I’m a fan because I’m the claustrophobic one, even though it means I’d get murdered first haha.  

    Post # 9
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    2951 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 1998

    We always sleep on the same side me on the left him on the right:)

    Post # 10
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    621 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    We definitely have our own sides! Mostly its because we each have our own bedside tables with our necessities… our different phone chargers, books, water, etc.

    Post # 11
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    645 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Maybe Im a control freak but how do you even sleep? There has been a couple of times he’s asked and ill say yes but its totally hesitantly and we’ll just end up on our respective sides anyway. 

    Post # 12
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    593 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    At home we sleep on our own sides every night.. However I really sleep in the middle lol. When we sleep elsewhere (visiting friends/family hotels) it depends… It’s not like we have to be on left or right.. I like to sleep away from the door so thats how we pick sides. Or if the bed is against a wall, I sleep against walk because he hates sleeping by walls. 

    Post # 14
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    130 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    According to my Fiance, I sleep in the middle! hahaha.. But he is always on the left side of me at home.. at hotels, I’m always the furthest from the door! 

    Post # 15
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    4047 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    Always always always! I have a full bed to myself (and a queen at my parents’ house), and I even then I only sleep on one side.

    I was horrified when I discovered my Fiance insisted that he sleep on that same side and that I should move over! He even admitted it used to not be “his” side because his ex made them swap long ago, and ever since then he’s been used to it. I insisted that meant he could swap again. lol

    I didn’t win on that one. So now at my place I sleep on my normal side, and at his place I sleep on the other side. It’s been long enough that it doesn’t feel too weird though. Who knows who will sleep where when we get our own place!

    Post # 16
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    2497 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I’ll put my feet on his side if he’s gone, but I never use his pillow. That just feels so weird to me!

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