(Closed) Do you sleep the same without DH/FI/SO?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
4606 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

It feels like it takes me forever to fall asleep if FH isn’t around. X

Post # 4
574 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Yup!  We’re apart all the time, so I’m used to going back and forth between having him there and not.

Post # 5
8 posts
  • Wedding: September 2012

I too sleep horrible when my fiance is gone. He is actually gone for three weeks! only one week down. Also when he is gone I am so lonely and the house seems to quiet!

Post # 6
1856 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Nope. And we’re long distance almost all through the year now, so I don’t get a very good night’s sleep except a few weeks out of the year.

Post # 7
598 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I definietly sleep worse when FireCapt isn’t home.  Which isn’t an especially good thing since he’s gone every third night.  Oh well..he’s worth a few nights of restless sleep.

Post # 8
9056 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Dh works night shift a lot so I’m used to sleeping alone. I take it as an opportunity to spread out starfish without kicking anybody. 

Post # 9
1839 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I sleep better by myself lol

Post # 10
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Not well at all, and if it’s over a weekend I won’t stay home alone. My husband’s father is getting re-married right after school starts this year and it’s a new job, so I can’t take off. My husband is considering going for the weekend and I’m really sad at the prospect of staying home alone without him. 

Post # 11
786 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

It depends. If he’s not in the apartment (like out of town) I don’t sleep well – takes forever to fall asleep. If he’s in the apartment and just in his study doing work or something, I can fall asleep fine because he’s here with me, even though he’s not in the bed.

Post # 12
11391 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

My husband works night shift & has for pretty much the entire three years he has been working at his job. So I am use to it. But I must add I love it on the weekends when he has off work & we can sleep together! BLISS!!!!!!!!

Post # 13
240 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

He snores like an effn beast! I sleep much better alone! Sealed

Post # 14
505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Absolutely. I always go to bed before Fiance does and he has this bad habit of falling asleep downstairs in front of the TV. When this happens, I wake up (like clockwork!) in the middle of the night because he’s not there and go wake him to come to bed. I think it’s because he always snuggles with me when he does come to bed so my body must know when I don’t get the snuggles and wakes me up!

Post # 15
4153 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Hell no!

We’re LDR at the moment and I sleep so bad.  Although the extra space in bed is nice as he has a tendancy to follow me around the bed…

@KallahinBaltimore:  I miss SO’s snoring, even if it did wake me from time to time.

@RhubarbPie:  Totally agree with this!!  But I tend to wake up after a few hours if he’s not beside me, then freak out if he’s still up working/gaming and not in bed.

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