(Closed) Do you stay in conversation with your stylist while getting a hair cut?

posted 11 years ago in Beauty
  • poll: Do you stay in conversation with your stylist while getting a hair cut?

    Yes! I talk about everthing going on in my life!!

    Eh... depends if the stylist initiates the conversation, otherwise I won't.

    No, I take the time to close my eyes and relax!

    Talk? I'm too busy on my phone texting/looking at the weddingbee.com!!

  • Post # 17
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2011 - Vandiver Inn

    I do, but we (Mr. Lox and I share the same stylist. True fact.) are also inviting her to the wedding. So we’re kind of friends after knowing her for so long.

    Post # 18
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Wow, I’m really the only one that picked no?

    I am antisocial, have no small talk, and can’t hear a damn thing through the blowdryer anyways so I grab the first magazine I can and try to avoid conversation as best as I can.

    Post # 19
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @meliss: I picked no too :). I’ll answer questions directly, but I can’t continue a conversation once he/she initiates it. I’m sure they’re lovely people, but I just never know what to say! I’m a really shy person.

    Post # 20
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I do but she is a friend from “real life” so I see her alot

    Post # 22
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I do if I go to my “regular” stylist that I’ve gone to for almost 7 years. However, since I live farther away, I’ll go get trims at the local places and try to keep up the small talk but sometimes it’s just awkward. I think if you have a relationship with them it’s different.

    Post # 23
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I try, but I have really bad communication skills (help? lol)  so our convos are usually pretty short and about the weather or styles or something funny.

    Post # 24
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 1999

    YES!!!  I’ve been going to my hairstylist for about 18 years now!  She’s become a great friend and was in my wedding!  Smile

    Post # 25
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    my stylist moved, but while she was here, we talked the whole time (other than blow drying- i like to talk, but i don’t want to SHOUT in a spa! lol). i tried a new girl, whom i did NOT like, maybe our talking distracted her & that’s why my hair sucked! haven’t been back to her. i don’t usually feel weird talking while getting my hair done, my nails on the other hand, i often do. a lot of the time, the girls at the nail places (where i’ve gone) don’t speak much english and they often just talk to one another & i have no idea what they’re talking about & just sit there hoping they’re not talking about me. i was at the spa today & talked the whole time besides during a facial. i’m chatty! 

    Post # 26
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I have been going to my stylist for about 2 years now so I’m pretty comfortable with her. She will ask me about my personal life or things I’ve told her about in the past, I’ll just keep talking. Haha. If it was someone I was just going to for the first time I would probably be quiet and wait for them to initiate conversation.

    Post # 27
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I connected well to my previous hair-dresser.  She was a few years older than me and got engaged while I was engaged. 

    I recently changed hair dressers, and… it’s a struggle sometimes.  She knows that I work in the medical field, so she has a tendancy to talk about her health problems (surgeries).  I tend to be very non-commital in my replies – I’m not her physician or therapist!  I’ve gone 3 times, but I’m kind of not wanting to go back because of the persistent conversations about her peronal life!

    Post # 28
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    My mom is a hairstylist!!! So I talk to her all the time…. and she talks to ALL of her customers non-stop. You have to watch her because she’ll get so into the conversation that she’ll just keep cutting away (not really, we just make fun of her). Now that I have a different hairstyle that most stylists aren’t used to I go to a special salon. I don’t really like to talk, I just want to relax. Especially since it takes like 4 hours total… geez. But I only go like once a year if that.

    Post # 29
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    nope. i’m terrible at small talk and don’t have a regular stylist. i always feel so awkward just sitting there not talking though!

    Post # 30
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I just recently in the past year finally found a cool stylist whom i feel comfortable around.  I was never the type to talk about things with a hair stylist or a manicurist. It’s not me. In fact, I HATE getting my hair done or having small talk with strangers.  But I LOVE my hair stylist now.  I don’t tell her everything, but we definitely talk and she’s amazing.  Pricey, but worth it.

    Post # 31
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Hmm.. I have had so many stylists, I realize that I usually talk only if they are the talkative type.  Usually though, I find the stylists I have are pretty quiet.. maybe they get the vibe that I’d rather relax? lol, not sure.

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