(Closed) Do you subconsciously treat men of "size" better than others?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

No, if I’ve committed to a relationship, I do what I can to show that person I love him, regardless of whatever his size may be.  I just try to be the best possible significant other I can be, and not doing things because of something he can’t control makes me speechless.

I get that initially it’s subconscious for you, but you’re obviously conscious of it now, so maybe that’s something to work on.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Um, no.

Post # 6
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5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

I think you should work on changing that.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

+1 on the “um, no” side of things.

 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Agree with PP’s. What if a guy treated you differently because your chest size or waist size wasn’t what got them off?

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I agree with PP. This is a real problem. 

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Erm no, definitely not.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Of course not.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

If this is the second time you’re bringing this up, then maybe you should think about if this is an issue for you.  Sex is important in any relationship, and if you’re not digging it now, then you definitely won’t be digging it later.

Post # 13
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1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

um NO this is a probelm!!!!  Why are you comparing the “size” of your guy to how you treat him?

I have never thought this way before, im surprised anybody would….

Maybe you need to find somebody you really care abou, lovet and want to do things for and be with before you sleep with them so you dont have to compare their size to how well you will treat them?  I

Post # 14
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679 posts
Busy bee

Hell to the no. I base my treatment of him on how much I love and care for him, and on how well he treats me, too. The size of his penis doesn’t play into it AT ALL. I dated and slept with a guy who was much larger than my current SO, but he was a total jerk and deserved to be treated as one. His penis size didn’t make him worthy of any type of special treatment, just as my boob size doesn’t make me worth of any special treatment.

Out of curiousity, does this mean you treat the guy you’re sleeping with on the side better than you treat your SO? Because that would be really sad, and based on your previous posts, I feel badly for your SO.

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m gonna go with the “um, no” as well… I can’t see any reason to treat someone differently based on how “hung” they are. Should a man treat you with less care if you have smaller chest than other girls they’ve been with?

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Nope.

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