Post # 1
last night i had my first wedding nightmare!!! here is what happened:
the church i’m getting married in had hosted a play the night before, so the altar had turned into this big wreck of a stage with props everywhere and everything. i tripped on my way down the aisle. during the ceremony, people were talking SO loud. so much so that the priest got too distracted and right before he was supposed to ask for our “i do’s” he said “do we really need to do that part? lets skip that” and left. THEN a clown was hovering OVER my head and was asking me why i was crying (i think this part stemmed from my ridiculous fear of clowns). after the ceremony we didn’t go to the reception, instead my fiance asked if i wanted to just sit and drink in the bar (yes apparently this dream church had a bar inside).
it was terrible.
Post # 3
That was terrible dream… especially the clown part!
I’ve had one or two a while back and at the time they seemed remarkable but I don’t remember them now. I haven’t had one recently but I’m pretty sure I’ll have at least one more before the big day. You should write that one down… I wish I had so I could remember it now.
Post # 4
Oh goodness!! I keep having nightmares about my flowers….and I think it’s because I can’t do a “trial run”.
Post # 5
hahaha…dream church with a bar…that made me laugh.
Post # 6
I had a nightmare that I was late! I couldn’t find my florist, my gown and the limo! Ughhh! It was terrible. I am constantly late so this freaked me out because it can actually happen LOL!
Post # 7
I have general anxiety dreams all the time about the wedding although they aren’t specific to any problem I am actually having! Like, last night, I was watching an episode of 18 kids and counting where the Duggars were having a vow renewal. It was a combo 18 kids and Say Yes to the Dress….well then I had an anixety dream about modest wedding gowns even though that is not an issue in my life right now!
Post # 8
I’ve had one wedding-related dream. I was at the chapel and we got there late, I was so focused on getting my bridesmaids dressed that I didn’t worry about myself. So, we sent them down that aisle and as that happened, I decided to start getting dressed and put on my make up and do my hair. I couldn’t find my shoes and accused my parent’s of hiding them because they hated them and eventually wore some kind of silver nike slip on flats.
Once I got ready, and I didn’t look good . . . I turned to my parent’s and asked them if they thought everyone would still be there, to which my mom replied “well, they’ve been waiting over 20 minutes, what do you think?” I hurried up and finished what I needed to do, the doors opened to the chapel and my dad and I started walking down it.
As I was walking, and everyone was looking, I saw that my bridesmaids were wearing sage green stain dresses and the flowers were incredibly different than my florist and I ever discussed. When I got to the end of the aisle, my fiance was not there . . . apparently he got sick of waiting and decided to go sit down somewhere. And then I woke up.
Not a nightmare but really weird. Especially considering that I am not getting married in a chapel, my bridesmaid are wearing gray chiffon dresses and the flowers are definitely different than what I saw in my dream.
Post # 9
I hate wedding dreams but what I hate more is laying in bed thinking of all the things i have to do for the wedding! Haha then I finally fall asleep and I dream that something didn’t get done and there isnt any time to fix it. Yes, I am a control freak
Post # 10
i have nightmares as well, the one i remember most was a dream that it was the end of my wedding and I didnt remember any of it. How aweful not to remember ones weddings! lol
Post # 11
lol bees! it is like we’re stressed out about it while we’re awake, but apparently i’m even stressed out about it in my sleep! the other night i spent the night in a hotel room with my mom and she said i woke her up talking in my sleep to Fiance – apparently i was telling him that i HAVE to get the thank you notes for the shower out by saturday.
Post # 12
I’m glad I’m not the only one! A few nights ago I had one where all kinds of things were going wrong and my mom changed things at the last minute without running them by me at all (Can’t remember specifics). And my beautiful purple cake arrived and was solid white. Then after everything was done, we were cleaning up and I realized the photographer never showed up (which I’m pretty sure I should have noticed way before then). I started having a panic attack in my dream, which apparently carried over to real life because my husband (our civil ceremony was a couple weeks ago :)) woke me up from because I was gasping. Three weeks to go and the anxiety will be over!
Post # 13
lol @heinekend – i’m glad the worry will be over soon for you! congratulations in advance!! 🙂
Post # 14
I’ve had several wedding dreams!
One dream I was with my Mom at Kinkos, in my wedding dress, having the programs printed during the wedding.
Another dream, I got home and all my bridesmaids were in their dresses holding their flowers and they were asking me why I wasn’t ready.
Glad I’m not the only crazy bride dreaming about wedding stuff!
Post # 15
yes! And it’s sad that every dream I’ve had about the wedding has been bad. I’m never on time, and I’m freaking out. I just hope it doesn’t come true the day of.
Post # 16
Yep, I keep having nightmares about my SIL causing major drama.