(Closed) Do you tell you SO everything?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
2696 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I tell him mostly everything. He’s my best friend. If another friends tells me something and asks me not to tell, I will not. Otherwise, I really do share pretty much everything with my Fiance.

I don’t always tell him if I get hit on, sometimes I will if it’s a funny situation, then we just laugh about it. haha.

Post # 3
4521 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

If it’s something he shouldn’t know, I generally don’t tell.

Post # 4
64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2015 - Banquet Hall

I am the same way as winterwoodlandbride15. My Fiance and I tell each other everything pretty much. There are not any secrets really. Unless we are planning something for the other. He’s my bestfriend. People tell their bffs everything so same with my FI/bestfriend. I don’t tell him all the time if someone has hit on me unless it’s funny or it really disturbed me.  🙂

Post # 5
8684 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I don’t understand the “best friend” nonsense. i don’t even tell my best friend of 25+ years all my other friends’ business so why on earth would I tell my husband? If it doesn’t pertain to me I don’t share unless it’s something that isn’t personal.

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Bellagiobride:  don’t try to understand it if you don’t do it. You will never understand.

Post # 6
1228 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I tell him mostly everything because he’s my partner and we share our thoughts, ideas and experiences.

If I’m asked to keep something in confidence, I don’t tell him. If I think telling him something about my friend or family member might negatively change his opinion if them, I might not tell him… but it depends.

I sometimes tell him I got hit on, in a teasing way. Not in a confessional, “oh honey I feel soooo guilty” way.

Post # 8
1037 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Merritt Winery

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Bellagiobride:  in my previous relationship, I would not tell my guy everything. He was a pretty judgmental person. However, I do tell my now Fiance other people’s secrets sometimes because he’s my bestfriend and he’s a caring and non judgmental person. Sometimes a girl just has to talk! For your second question, if Fiance asks if someone hit on me, I’d tell him. I would also tell him if it was a funny situation without him asking me. 

Post # 9
1609 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

We pretty much tell each other everything. I never got the “he’s my best friend” thing either until i started dating my fiance. He truly is my best friend and I trust him completely.

Post # 10
1034 posts
Bumble bee

I’ve shared some things with my Fiance when a close friend has brought something to my attention that I don’t know how to react or respond to. He is my sound board and has some pretty good feedback (like, keep your nose out of it! Lol) I don’t tell him things to be malicious to the other person or the intent to gossip. I honestly want his opinion since he is more rational, while I go by emotional response. Which most ladies can agree, isn’t always the smartest plan!!!!

Post # 11
9082 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I tell him everything. If someone we both know asks me to keep a secret, that secret is between me and them UNLESS it would need to involve my husband (Like if a friend says they want to kill themselves or hurt someone, extreme stuff like that.) Otherwise, yes, I tell him everything.

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Post # 12
523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I do-I’m not sure why I wouldnt. He understands that some things I tell him have to stay between us, and he can’t go talking about it. But yea, if it’s some juicy stuff…I’m going to tell him.

There’s not a single person who would tell me a secret that doesn’t know I’m going to tell my husband.

Post # 13
228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Aloft Hotel

I tell him everything. I assume friends and family know this, as I know that many of them tell their partners things about me. We think of couples as units. Thankfully my Fiance is just about the least judgemental guy I’ve met and no matter what I tell him, his opinion of a person is always formed by his personal interactions with them (and not what I told him to think).

Furthermore, if something is bothering me or I want to talk about something important I trust him the most with all of the gritty details of my emotions. If I think my friend’s being a bitch or if my sister hurt my feelings I feel most comfortable opening up to him about it (before I confront the issue with the person in question of course). Partners, in our understanding of the word, means no secrets.

Post # 14
117 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I tell my Fiance everything, even things that are probably meant to stay between me and other friends. But he’s the only person in the entire world with whom I can share my completely real, honest reactions without fear of being rude or hurting someone’s feelings. And he knows what things stay between us and shouldn’t be brought up around other people. 

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