(Closed) Do you tell your SO when you get hit on?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I only tell him if it’s something totally retarded.  Which it usually is. 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Usually I dont, unless its a funny story. I think of it as, would you want him telling you everytime someone hit on him?

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree with Rockstar33 I usually only tell him if its something we can get a good laugh out of…otherwise I just blow it off…I’m not going to act on it and sometimes it doesn’t make the other person feel good knowing about it.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@RockStar33:  Yep. This. I only let him know if it’s something completely ridiculous (which of course it is most of the time).

Post # 7
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Honey bee

No, unless it’s really weird.

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2013

If it makes for a good story and I know he’ll laugh then yes. But in general no, he doesn’t really like knowing. And I wouldn’t really care to know vice versa.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Telling him usually only makes him feel insecure and I don’t want ot make him feel that way so I usually don’t say anything unless its something funny and stupid. If it was a big deal I WOULD tell him, but sometimes those little omissions keep others from feeling bad about nothing.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I tell him with its so stupid or not the norm. Like when I was in a drive thru getting coffee the guy infront of my bought me a coffee. Hubby was a bit jealous and asked if I was going to get coffee the next day, hehe 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I agree, I’ll tell him if it’s a funny or weird situation. I was out with a couple of girl friends the other night for drinks, and this guy comes up to our table and says, “You guys good on drinks?” Thinking he was a waiter, we said, “Yep, thanks” and went back to our conversation… only when we saw him walk back to his table did we realize that he didn’t work there.

SO and I had a good laugh when I told him the story (both at the guy’s lame line and my cluelessness!)

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I ALWAYS tell him.  I think it is a really good idea in a relationship.  I tell him everything in general and I think it is good for trust, and usually it is funny.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

If it’s a funny story, then yeah, to make him laugh! If it was more weird or uncomfortable, I’d just keep it to myself instead of making him upset/mad that someone made me feel that way.

Post # 14
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Honey bee

For example, i told him about the guy in the grocery store who kept coming by and turning to me with his creepy clown smile.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Gosh…. I can’t even go grocery shopping or get the mail without some douchebag making some stupid remark….

“I am pregnant Creeper!!! UGH!”

Anyway!

Sometimes I tell him, sometimes I don’t. If its funny then sure, but other times I don’t find it important enough to bring it up. He dosn’t really need to know how many a-holes hit on me. Maybe it is the town I live in…but if I felt the need to tell him everytime it happens….it would be brought up everyday.

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I do, but that’s because he knows what a catch I am (Wink) and finds anytime I turn a guy down amusing — he doesn’t really go out much (without me anyway) and doesn’t get hit on a lot, although there were some 16/17 year olds who were in his store the other day and did their best at flirting (it was really more giggling uncontrollably) lol

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