(Closed) Do you think about your ex’s??

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Ever think about exs??
    Yes : (54 votes)
    89 %
    No : (7 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    6351 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I’m actually texting with one right now. We dated for six months so it’s not like we were super serious but we really enjoyed each other as people. He is super into clothes and lives in the town we are considering for our reception so he’s been giving me advice on the wedding. That said we split about three years ago.

    Post # 4
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    1629 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Yeah its just kind of like i wonder what they’re up to or i wonder if they’re still alive somewhere lol.

    Post # 5
    Member
    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    one keeps calling … he did last night.  My stomache drops and i get the sweats and I think i must throw up immediately.  He’s like gum on my shoe that i can not scrap off entirely.  blah

    Post # 6
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    4583 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I had one serious relationship before I met Fiance. We’re still good friends.

    Post # 7
    Member
    5984 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1999

    Yes and No…depends on the guy and our history. 

    @HisIrishPrincess – I had a “leech” like that before.  Have you put your foot down yet and told him your in a perfectly happy and serious relationship and that you want him to stop calling immediately?  Also, tell him when you see his number on your phone int he future you will not answer!  Good Luck!!

    Post # 8
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    755 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Yep. I got hurt by almost all of my ex’s (I was very easy to manipulate and believe whatever he wanted me to believe). And my Fiance has to live with that now so I’m super jealous type (I’m seriously trying to work on it) and so whenever I get jealous my most recent ex pops into my head as justification of why I’m jealous. And I also think where are they now, who are they with now, kinda thing. 

    But that’s what FB is for(;

    Post # 9
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    3576 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I do, here and there.  It just depends.  Perhaps I heard a song that reminds me of one of them, etc.  That’s about it.

    Post # 10
    Member
    7173 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Yeah – I do from time to time.  Random things remind me of people and I wonder how they are doing, etc.  I’m not in contact with any of them – so other than finding out news about them from mutual friends, they are just part of my history.

    ETA:  right before the wedding, I really REALLY wanted to contact one.  But, I’m glad I didn’t.  What I realized is I had some unresolved anger towards him and just wanted to rub it in his face that I was getting married.  Again, SO glad I didn’t… it took some thinking to figure out my motivation for why I wanted to reach out to him.

    Post # 11
    Member
    755 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @Lady_Love: Haha I’d like to do the same!

    Post # 12
    Member
    5657 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2012

    Most of my Xs I don’t really care about or think of often, but one of my Xs I consider to be my first real love (although I love my current SO much more than I ever loved him). I think about him occasionally and I wonder if he’s doing alright. I think there is still a special place in my heart for him.

    Post # 13
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    3375 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Nope, never think about him. And I was with my ex for 6 years! Once I got engaged not a single thought of him has entered my brain. Before then, I used to wonder why we weren’t friends.

    Post # 14
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    1398 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Ugh yea, at least one of them – he’s on TV now so I’m constantly getting facebook updates from our friends to watch his show, even my parents watch it! When we went home for christmas my parents were like “do you want to watch Ex’s show?” while i was with FI!!! Um, hell no? I told them he was a jerkface and I hadn’t planned on watching it… it is a really weird feeling to see him on commercials though… it makes me sick :

    Post # 16
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    3166 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @SoontobeMrsA: lol, me too! it’s been like 6 mos since we’ve texted – just a random blip. anyway, sometimes i reminicse on fun times just as you would fun times with anyone else, but never in a longing way. my current relationship blows any others I’ve had out of the water. my last bf, we dated about 4 years and broke up about 4 years ago. he’s still not over it though. :/

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