Post # 17
@NVACat: Oh my hat Im SOOO doing the same! My brain is just whacking out everytime we go somewhere…whether it be for breakfast of just going out for a nice glass of wine. My mind is working overtime. Everytime he tells me we are going somewhere,the first thing Im thinking is “will he propose”.
Im trying very hard not to think so much, as it will only ending up in dissapointment. But i know exactly what you mean! Lol…funny
Post # 18
yes!! SO got the ring a few weeks ago and this past weekend we went home and I know he asked my fathers blessing. Today he suggested a special date night this weekend, which is not like him. So obviously my mind goes straight to proposal. 🙂 Trying not to get my hopes up though.
Post # 19
YES, I totally do this. I was convinced that he would propose on vacation last month – thankfully, we talked before we left and I knew it wouldn’t be happening. I think it would have ruined my vacation if I was still expecting it and nothing happened. We’re going to Boston to visit SO’s family in a month or so and SO says he wants to go spent one night in a nice place on the coast (probably Newport, RI), so my spidey sense is tingling again. I went to lunch with SO and one of his friends and we told him about our Boston trip, then I left to take a phone call, and came back to SO saying “….I haven’t told many people about that yet,” followed by awkward silence. Of course this could be about ANYTHING, but I automatically assumed it was about a proposal. Keeping my fingers crossed!
Post # 20
I absolutely do this. It’s my birthday this Friday – will it be then?? Or our “couples photo shoot” in the botanical garden on Sunday? Or next week when we go camping for HIS birthday? Or in July, for our two year anniversary?
Or right, it’s probably none of those times because it’d be “too obvious”. I keep telling myself it’s not. going. to. happen. then.
But deep down I’m wishing/hoping/praying it will be!
All I want is a hint, damnit!
Post # 21
I most certainly have done that. Luckily, I’m able to shove most of those ideas back into the closet in my brain and shut the door tight. I’ve been wrong WAAAAAY too many times to get serious about any of my ideas. There have been a couple times where I had been ABSOLUTELY sure that it was going to happen and then it didn’t. Which ended up being pretty embarassing because on those particular occasions, I may have had a breakdown or two… Plus, I couldn’t keep my mouth shut to some friends… So it was awkward having to break the news to them. It’s amazing how the smallest comment can make you think that it’s going to happen though.
Post # 22
YES…thank you for posting this. I feel like a crazy person! The last few moths or so, I have thought every plan he made was proposal related. We were on a trip last weekend and I had 3 moments where I thought “is this it?”. Ha! Glad it’s not just me!