(Closed) Do you think he is lying or being honest?

posted 6 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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CuriousBeetobe:  He’s lyin’ like a rug. Even if he is telling the truth, which is pretty unlikely in my opinion, it sounds like he comes with all kinds of drama–the living situation with the maybe/maybe not ex, the fact that his mom and him and his “ex” all apparently hang out together, his sad sack history where all women ever have hurt him. You don’t need that. Not in a romantic partner, not really even in a friend. If you reeeeeeeally want to be his friend that’s your choice to make, but there’s no way in Hades you should date this guy and it sounds like you know that. Good for you for not being fooled! I know plenty of smart women who have been taken in by dudes like this

Post # 17
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

He’s trying to cheat on his girlfriend and keep both of you in the dark.  I would distance myself immediately.  No good can come of this OP.  

Post # 19
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

This is way too much drama for a guy you met 2 months ago.

Post # 20
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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CuriousBeetobe:   My take on this is that he is living proof of the phrase “if they cheat with you, they will cheat on you.”  He is definitely a liar, I’d guess the so-called “ex” he is living with is his current girlfriend, and he is trying to make you into the other woman.  RUN!!   He can feed his ego off someone else.

Post # 21
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

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CuriousBeetobe:  hes 100% ABSOLUTELY in a relationship and is in general, full of shit. Stop wasting your time and phone minutes on this fantasy- it’s a lie.

Post # 22
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

this guy doesn’t even deserve your friendship. you need to love yourself more and not associate with manipulative liars, even as friends

Post # 23
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

He’s a liar and a bad one at that.  I wouldn’t waste anymore time talking to him.  A bag and purse?  AND a girl in the mirror looking out the window (maids do not carry purses or just gaze out the window.  they also typically have a uniform) and you’re thinking about buying the bullshit he’s feeding you??  You know better than that.

Post # 24
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Honey Beekeeper

 Frankly, you don’t sound nearly paranoid enough.  If a stupid video game is more important to you than distancing yourself from an obvious pathological liar, that concerns me.  

Post # 25
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

he’s being shady as f*ck.

Honestly, there’s lots of red flags before you even get into whether he’s lying or not (living with an ex, says he’s in a relationship on facebook, says he loves you after a few months when you only saw each other for like a week, to name a few…)

He’s saying things that don’t make sense, has timelines that are off (a big clue to tell you he’s lying), and has really poor judgment it sounds like (like dating a married woman!!). 

Honestly, I don’t see what you’re getting out of this besides being toyed around with. Even if you could just talk as “friends”, I wouldn’t. If he really was your friend, he wouldn’t lie and treat you like that. AND clearly he doesn’t see you as a friend becuase he does have feelings for you — so he’d be expecting more (and more pressuring for cyber sex). I would end communication. 

Post # 26
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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CuriousBeetobe:  I think he is a liar liar pants on fire.

Post # 27
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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CuriousBeetobe:  Rather then worrying about him, I recommend some introspection to see why you are even giving this man the time of day.

Post # 28
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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julies1949:  +1000 I fail to see what you are attracted to in this man. Liar, cheater, the list of negative attributes goes on. The question is why you have any contact with him at all.

Post # 29
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

CuriousBeetobe: He has a girlfriend and he’s trying to cheat on her with you. You’ve been eating up all his lies, he probably gets off on all this and keeps on feeding you more. I wouldn’t say that you’re being paranoid because all these HUGE red flags would be noticed by your average non-paranoid person. I think you’re being naive about this guy, please stop wasting your time and don’t keep him around even as a friend. Do you really want to be friends with some random guy who tried to get you to cyber with him? Ick.

Post # 30
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

You met the guy two months ago. A month in, he said he loves you and you’re the only woman in the world for him. He lives with his ex and honestly I can’t follow the rest because it’s so full of WTF that it makes my head hurt. Dump this guy. He’s a loser and a player and nothing good is going to come from this “relationship.”

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