- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
He’s trying to cheat on his girlfriend and keep both of you in the dark. I would distance myself immediately. No good can come of this OP.
This is way too much drama for a guy you met 2 months ago.
this guy doesn’t even deserve your friendship. you need to love yourself more and not associate with manipulative liars, even as friends
He’s a liar and a bad one at that. I wouldn’t waste anymore time talking to him. A bag and purse? AND a girl in the mirror looking out the window (maids do not carry purses or just gaze out the window. they also typically have a uniform) and you’re thinking about buying the bullshit he’s feeding you?? You know better than that.
Frankly, you don’t sound nearly paranoid enough. If a stupid video game is more important to you than distancing yourself from an obvious pathological liar, that concerns me.
he’s being shady as f*ck.
Honestly, there’s lots of red flags before you even get into whether he’s lying or not (living with an ex, says he’s in a relationship on facebook, says he loves you after a few months when you only saw each other for like a week, to name a few…)
He’s saying things that don’t make sense, has timelines that are off (a big clue to tell you he’s lying), and has really poor judgment it sounds like (like dating a married woman!!).
Honestly, I don’t see what you’re getting out of this besides being toyed around with. Even if you could just talk as “friends”, I wouldn’t. If he really was your friend, he wouldn’t lie and treat you like that. AND clearly he doesn’t see you as a friend becuase he does have feelings for you — so he’d be expecting more (and more pressuring for cyber sex). I would end communication.
CuriousBeetobe: He has a girlfriend and he’s trying to cheat on her with you. You’ve been eating up all his lies, he probably gets off on all this and keeps on feeding you more. I wouldn’t say that you’re being paranoid because all these HUGE red flags would be noticed by your average non-paranoid person. I think you’re being naive about this guy, please stop wasting your time and don’t keep him around even as a friend. Do you really want to be friends with some random guy who tried to get you to cyber with him? Ick.
You met the guy two months ago. A month in, he said he loves you and you’re the only woman in the world for him. He lives with his ex and honestly I can’t follow the rest because it’s so full of WTF that it makes my head hurt. Dump this guy. He’s a loser and a player and nothing good is going to come from this “relationship.”
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