(Closed) Do you think he really had it custom made?

posted 9 years ago in Rings
Post # 77
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2803 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@mamadingdong:  Again, the OP was not asking if we thought that he was lying, but if he was misinformed/confused. She didn’t want to burst his bubble by questioning too deeply “So did you sit down with the jeweller and sketch it out?” “How long did the process take?” “Did you see a wax model” etc – that would be mean if he was so proud of having designed the ring, but in actuality just had it slightly altered.  So instead, to satisfy her curiosity, she asked the Hive. 

Asking if he was lying WOULD be weird, good thing she didn’t ask that. 

Post # 78
Hostess
2203 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Ive never seen anything like it before, it’s gorg!

Post # 79
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2492 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

@Everdeen:  I saw absolutely none of that in the OP. 

 He claims my ring is cutom made and he took pic of all 3 rings i wanted and had it combined and custom made into this one.  Im not complaining, i absolutely love it but just curious if he really took the time oto have it made or did he stumble across something that hapened to look like the three…

“Claims” and “really took the time” are what make her sound suspicious. Really, I don’t care what he did, but please don’t mischaracterize my ability to understand things. 

Post # 80
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@SnaggedAgoodOne:  I think your ring is stunning and I do think he had it custom made.  Are there other rings that look similar? Absolutely, mine is almost identical, but I’m sure he took the rings that you liked and made it into one beautiful ring!

This is mine….very similar, but I don’t think identical.

Post # 81
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2803 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@mamadingdong: I guess it comes back to giving people the benefit of the doubt before jumping on them for assuming negative things. Especially given that the OP said that she loves the ring either way, it would make more sense to assume that she didn’t think he was lying. She also clarified in later posts that no, she didn’t assume he was lying. 

Post # 82
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1169 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Mine is almost exactly the same. It’s from Helzberg. But he can still have custom designed it based on one he saw and liked elsewhere

Post # 83
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2492 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

@Everdeen:  my response was one of the initial and all I said was:

And what if he didn’t? Why are you distrustful? Why would he lie? Poor guy. 

This was before any clarification or follow up. Why don’t you just buzz off. This is annoying. 

 
 

Post # 84
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2803 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@mamadingdong:  I apologise for putting you in a bad mood. I thought we were having a lively discussion about the current dynamic of the Hive, I didn’t realise that I was being annoying. 

Hope you have a great rest of the week. 

Post # 85
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3073 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2000

@SnaggedAgoodOne:  I’ll repeat myself: That is one sweet ring!

I think I’ve found the (fantasy) halo to my (fantasy) 2C emerald cut diamond, hehe!

Post # 87
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2803 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@SnaggedAgoodOne:  What kind does he want? Does he want to have input?

Post # 89
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2803 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@SnaggedAgoodOne:  Try to remember that it’s HIS ring. But also, what kind of mmmph are you talking about? To me, most men’s rings aren’t full of mmmph, except the ones that are Transformers themed or something. – Haha

Post # 90
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870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@SnaggedAgoodOne:  do you really think he would lie to you? Like really? Don’t even think like that … really don’t 

 

if he didnt he would have talked about all the effort he put hunting for your dream ring and managed to find it, guys spend huge amounts of time looking for the perfect ring? 

 

why lie about how he found it

Post # 91
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160 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@SnaggedAgoodOne:  you should have let this thread die lol … Now you’ve got people not reading all the way through posting lol.

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