(Closed) Do you think he’s going to propose????

posted 11 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
652 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

maybe, but i really don’t think someone should get their hopes high because if it doesn’t happen you will be crushed………. i think either way at this point, i hope it does happen for you and your happy but if it doesn’t, i hope you aren’t that disappointed

Post # 4
165 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Another one of these..ok, just take a deep breath and relax. You can never be sure when your guy is going to do it and seriously you do not want to know when he will. Alot of us have been down that road where every little thing makes you think this only to be severly disappointed. My Fiance and I did the same thing when we first started dating, but remember your still new and fresh. I would hope after being togethor almost 6 mths you would be having those talks but that does not mean anythingg more than your relationship is growing and getting stronger, not a marriage right away. My Fiance told me he was going to marry me after a month, well we got engaged 2 1/2 years later bc we knew we wanted it but we also wanted to get to know each other and let our relationship grow before we took that step. Beleive if and when he proposes you want it to be a complete suprise and not something you are expecting or waiting for, it makes it so much better. Trust me.

Post # 6
3331 posts
Sugar bee

It sounds like it’s a possibility that he’s going to propose this weekend.  If not, it sounds like you’ve got a pretty good attitude going into the trip.  I experienced this same thing from both sides of it.  My now-husband and I went on vacation and I was sure that he might propose that weekend.  I spent the whole time on pins and needles, just waiting for the moment.  However…it never happened.  I was so disappointed and it ruined the whole trip and we got into a huge fight when we got home.  Little did I know, he was already in the process of paying for my ring and had picked it out months earlier.  A few months later, we went away again and this time, I was almost positive he would propose.  Because I  knew how upset I had been last time, I tried my best not to think about it and just to enjoy our vacation.  When he did propose, I was genuinely surprised.

I guess that’s a long-winded way of saying, relax and enjoy your trip.  If it happens, you’ll have a great story to tell.  If it doesn’t, you’ll still have enjoyed a wonderful vacation with your sweetie.

Post # 7
313 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

It sounds like a definate possibility! My FH was dropping hints left right and centre, that I didn’t even notice because he had convinced me that he wasn’t going to propose for a while because he "couldn’t afford a ring" and it was "too much pressure to make it perfect" (I thought I’d be waiting another 6 months). But all this "surprise" business gives me deja vu ;).
But hey, like the other ladies said, enjoy yourself and don’t be discouraged if it doesn’t happen!

Post # 8
119 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I wouldn’t recommend getting your hopes up just in case. I mean if you put it out of your mind and he does propose than awesome! But if you have it in your mind and he doesn’t I don’t think there are words for how painful that can be. just enjoy yourself and the trip he planned, guys don’t seem to be the planning type very often so it’s really nice when they do lol.

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