(Closed) Do You Think I can Ask my Niece's BF to video our ceremony and first dance?

posted 5 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Why don’t you have your niece bring up the idea without putting any pressure on him? From the situation, it sounds like he would be ideal, and if you only want those few moments captured, he probably won’t feel put out.

 

Post # 5
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Helper bee

Im going to say no to this. My bf’s family loves me very much i know, but there has been times when they would have me take family pictures for them since i wasnt “official” within them yet at family gatherings. it made me feel akward, and left out of a family that i felt very much apart of, but in a way i understood obviously, but it just made me feel weird. 

For his sake, dont. unless he’s cool with it, idk..

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

@immanorcalbee:  I’m with you. I think it’s a fine idea. He will probably feel awkward and will want something to do anyway. I’m actually asking the same thing of my sister’s bf, but I didn’t pay for anything for him, so I’m gonna give him $50 and say PLEASE DON’T EFF IT UP!!!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

it’s just the ceremony and first dance..it doesn’t sounds like you’re making him feel left out of any family events so I think it’s a good idea. since he’s a film major, it kinda sounds like a great idea lol

Post # 8
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Helper bee

oops! i misread that he was a film major. in that case, go for it! i bet he’d love that and it’d give him good experience for his major 🙂 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

@immanorcalbee:  Woot! Glad it worked out for you. I would totally ask too.

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