(Closed) Do you think is ok for a married women/ man go clubbing with out there spouse??

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you think is ok for a married women/ man go clubbing with out there spouse??
    Yes : (217 votes)
    58 %
    No : (47 votes)
    13 %
    Only on special occasion !! Like bachelor /bachelorette party for a friend ! : (98 votes)
    26 %
    Other (explain pls ) : (12 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We don’t go out to bars or clubs without each other. 

    However, if a couple agrees between them that it’s ok, there’s nothing wrong with it.

    Post # 4
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    2786 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    My Fiance goes to the bar with his buddies probably once every other month without me…it’s never really bothered me. I’m not that into the bar scene, but his friends are, so it’s one of the things they do together. Maybe it doesn’t bug me because I know he’d never dance, so he’s not going to be dancing with anyone else?

    I think it’s healthy to do things without your spouse, and to have guy time or girl time.

    Either way, to me it’s harmless fun.

    Post # 5
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    84 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Well, considering that I could never in a million years drag my Fiance to a club, then yes, I think it’s fine. I like going out with my girlfriends every once in a while. I don’t think it’s a big deal as long as you’re open and honest about what you’re doing rather than sneaking around.

    Post # 6
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    41 posts
    Newbee

    I don’t see anything wrong with it… unless you’re going out ALL the time and refuse to invite your spouse. That’s not cool…

    Post # 7
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    2416 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think it’s weird if you think there is something wrong with this.

    In fact, this weekend I’m heading out to play “wing-woman” to a friend who recently broke up with her long-term boyfriend. And when I know i’ll be drinking, I don’t wear my e-ring (gasp!) Mainly because I’ve lost it before when I’ve been drunk so I get too afraid to wear it out if I know i’ll be drinking a lot….but yes, it’s totally normal for both to go out on their own! Geesh!

    Post # 8
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    1856 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    I think couples should spend time separately, and if your idea of having fun includes a bar or club with your friends, I don’t see the big deal. We’re in an LDR; I know my SO goes out to bars with his friends sometimes, and if I had a babysitter, I probably would once in awhile too. Neither of us are clubbing kinds of people, but I don’t think that would really bug me, either.

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @sara_tiara:  Once every other month?! Yikes! Fiance and I often go out without each other, and also spend “date nights” together and we also go out in groups with other couples….but both myself and him like to spend time out with our friends…we’re not attached at each others hip and never will be!

    Post # 10
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    373 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I prefer to go without my spouse, its nice to go for girls night every once in a while, and he also goes out with the guys to the bar for some beers. You need to go out without him every now and and again, or else you’ll go crazy.

    Post # 11
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    2786 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @Miss Orchard:  lol, he goes out with his friends and does other things more frequently…i just meant specifically going out to the club solo.

    Post # 13
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    454 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    This is ultimately a decision that has to be made by each individual couple.  Whatever boundries the couple is okay with and not okay with should be communicated and respected.

    Post # 14
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I go out a lot with and without Darling Husband. I’m totally okay with dancing with other guys too.

    Post # 15
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    2742 posts
    Sugar bee

    @catracha:  I’m nearer your DH’s age and I don’t really go clubbing anymore. However, at 21, I used to love to go clubbing. I don’t find anything weird about each spouse going out alone. If I go to a lounge, I usually go with my girlfriends. Darling Husband always goes out with his guy friends. I don’t see anything wrong with it…

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