(Closed) Do you think it would be weird if my flower girl wore all pink … pls read on .

posted 12 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 4
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

My flower girls are wearing all pink dresses. Of course pink is one of my colors. Are you going to use pink anywhere else?

Post # 5
2324 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2021

Aren’t your colors red, blue and gold? Or something similar? I wouldn’t put her in a pink dress if they are. I would stick with white or ivory to match the ring bearer. Also, if you don’t want a flower girl, why are you having one? You seem really unhappy about it.

Post # 7
452 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

oh, well if the little girl already knows and is excited to be a part of your wedding, then it’s not worth hurting her feelings over it.

pink is a combination of red and white mixed together, so i think it’s perfectly fine for you to use. everything doesn’t have to be matchy-matchy. just as long as everything is coordinated. based on the description you provided for your wedding, the pink dress will work out fine.

that’s a really cute dress! go for it! i’m having flower girls and they are not wearing white. i don’t like the idea of having a mini-me bride.

Post # 8
2324 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2021

I don’t like the idea of mini-me brides either. When I say white, it wouldn’t be like a little wedding dress or anything. It’s a Southern thing, it’s hard to explain. Flower girls don’t look like mini brides here, but do wear white or ivory most of the time.

Post # 9
483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

And your ring bearer’s shirt won’t be unbuttoned and collar popped, right?  🙂 **hehe**

That will go just fine!  Especially if that’s what will make you happy to see!! :))))

Post # 10
7052 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Kate I know what you’re trying to convey.  In the south we DO use white and other pastels pretty much for flowergirl dresses but they aren’t at all similar to the brides’ dress.   Try looking at a site called “Wooden Soldiers”. They have the MOST adorable flowergirl dresses, special occasion dresses, and some of the cutest ever suits for little boys (the kind with the bermuda shorts).

I used to buy my little boy’s special occasion and holiday suits from them!

That’s where I’d get my flowergirl dress for T’s daughter and for my son’s half sister (his dad and stepmom’s little girl whom I adore).  How about checking online there?  They have two mostly white dresses and one thats’ mostly white with a blue (royal type color) flower on it and it’s very cute.

Imho if you’re ever in doubt over your colorscheme feel,just bring the swatches with you to every vendor and when finding each attendant and even the flower girl dress and even the guys’ ties!



Post # 11
14181 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I say just put her in whatever you want that’s cute and throw some flowers over her head! Done. She’s obviously a flower girl and I love when little girls wear frilly pastel dresses (NOT white like the brides).

Could the little ring bearer wear a matching tie or have a matching pillow so there’s coordination there, if not with the rest of the wedding?

Post # 12
439 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I don’t think your flower girl needs to match or co-ordinate with your decor – just your wedding party. And pink sounds like it would fit in fine! If you wanted to tie it in, you could try a white sash to match everyone else.

Post # 13
5150 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Could you do something with touches of pink but that cordinated more with your wedding colors and wedding party?

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