(Closed) Do you think of other bees differently?

posted 8 years ago in Weddingbee
  • poll: Do you think differently of a bee after a certain post?

    Yes

    No

  • Post # 92
    Member
    3415 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

    Opinions differ.  I can’t change what people are thinking or why they think that way.  All I can do is try to see their side of reasoning and hopefully broaden my horizons just a bit.

    The only reason I would dislike a Bee is if their posts were snarky or negative every single time.  I can’t deal with constantly crabby/negative people. 

    Post # 93
    Member
    1115 posts
    Bumble bee

    I also disagree that I “don’t have a life” or “take the Internet too seriously”, just because OP said something extremely disgusting and nasty that a lot of us will never be able to forget. 

    Post # 94
    Member
    4045 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    Rarely do I hold a “grudge” against a Bee. I usually don’t bother to look at usernames, especially if it is a newer Bee, so I would never remember what a poster said.

    There are a couple Bees I find a little annoying, so I avoid their threads. And there are a few who I think believe crazy shit, and yes, I judge them for it and think less of them. There are a couple from the threads that have popped up the last few days whose avatars or usernames I remember, and I admittedly have a negative bias toward them now.

    But meh, I’ll probably forget about it in a few days. It’s not like it’s something that affects my life.

    Post # 95
    Member
    3667 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    It depends on the post. I don’t think of anyone differently for the fire post because I can honestly see both sides of the issue.

    For other posts in which I have do a strong opinion, yes. I can’t help it. I’ll see an avatar and suddenly remember, “Oh, that’s the Bee who thinks gay people are evil” (hypothetical example) and avoid her posts.

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