(Closed) Do you think she'll drop us? HELP!!

posted 4 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
27 posts
  • Wedding: August 2013

If she hasnt cashed it yet then I dont think she is in a hurry for the money. It is a pretty understandable situtation.  🙂

Post # 4
2872 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I think you’ll be okay.  Try to stay calm and just wait for her response. 

Post # 5
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

If your date is a real indication of when your wedding is, I’m SURE this will be fine. I think this is good and early to make any kind of payment to her, so I highly doubt she would drop you.  But sending good vibes just in case!


Post # 8
790 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Id be ok with it as long as you let me know whats going on so I dont bounce. Dont worry just keep them up to date.


However, is SOOOOOOO annoying when people hang on to checks like that! lol My landlord does it and I cant freakin’ stand it!

Post # 9
531 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

she should understated ! It’s her fault for taking so long to process the check anyway!

Post # 10
90 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2000

Hopefully she said it was okay.

But did you consider that she may have already cashed the check and it just hadn’t cleared your account yet? My bank takes 3 days for checks to clear. Two weeks when sending across country isnt unreasonable. If the check bounces her bank will charge her and your bank will charge you. You’d be responsible for that. Plus if it bounced and caused her to overdraft, that will really be a nightmare for her. I’ve been on the receiving end of that and it takes about 2 weeks before you even find out. Most banks will show the money in your account but it’s actually pending. Then when it doesn’t clear, they take it out, hit you with a fee for the check and an NSF fee for every charge that is now overdrawn.

Post # 11
1000 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Oh I’m so GUILTY of hanging on to checks. We have a 3 payment plan system to make it easier for brides, so I get SO many checks, I really have to wait until I have a pile of them to take a trip to the bank, or I’d be going every day!

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