- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
so our wedding date is set for July 2011. We have been together 8 years. We wanted to get an idea of the estimated guest count so I told fiance to call his mom and ask about anyone she would like to invite. He told me how the conversaton went down and he said how she said “I DON”T EVEN KNOW HER PEOPLE” I was a little offended by that comment mainly because it is not true, the only person she has not met is my father and it is always becase she cant come to my family events but I always extend my invite. She never has dinners or anything at her house. She has also said other rude comments in the past like “when u get a real job” and refer to our relationship as 2 oppsites attract and things may balance out. which I ignored because I don’t know for a fact that she menat to be rude as they could go both ways.
My fiance’ says I read into things too much so I dont know how to feel. my issue is not waht she said but how it was said. I would found it better to hear” maybe we should all get together to get to know both sides of the family” To be honest I will NOT address the comment because it was not said to me personally but it’s a little offensive.
what do u guys think?