(Closed) Do you think you will have wedding withdrawal after it’s all over?

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Of course! But I also think I use to knit all the time and I havnt really finished anything in the past 4 months, Ill have tons of time to knit & read again 🙂

Post # 4
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7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Nope. I will breathe a sigh of relief. This wedding has monopolized too much of my time. I am just looking forward to being married finally.

Ugh. We should have eloped. lol

Post # 5
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1371 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m a week and a half out and no wedding blues yet!  It does feel a little weird that it is over, but I found wedding planning mostly stressful and unenjoyable.  It felt great to get to the actual day and be able to just let loose and have fun, since all I had done up do the day was worry about what I had left to do.  Plus, now I’m married!  It can’t get better than that!

Post # 6
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163 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

In a way I was sad after it was all over, because it was nice to be the center of attention for a while. But I was also relieved to not be planning anymore, to not be spending tons of money on everything and to not have to worry about making everyone happy. Now all I have to focus on is my normal life and my new marriage, which is pretty awesome.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I think I’ll be mostly relieved. This is fun, but I’m happy to do it once and get it over with. The big wedding was never my dream. I can look forward to honeymooning in Ireland for two weeks, writing books, establishing a career, and finding and furnishing a place to live after the wedding. Awesome stuff. The wedding day is just the start. I’ll only get involved in bigger projects after this! So no, I doubt I’ll have much wedding withdrawal. 🙂

Post # 8
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16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I’m going to be in major withdrawal.

Post # 9
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167 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Yes and I can’t wait! I am SO sick of wedding stuff!

Although, I realize once people can no longer ask me about the wedding, they’re going to ask other inappropriate questions – i.e. “When are you having kids??” (NEVER, btw.)

Post # 10
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2271 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I am happy, happy, happy it is over. I still seem fascinated with wedding dresses and accessories and come toWB to drool, but as for wedding planning – it was a nightmare and I stopped grinding my teeth and pulling my hair out as soon as the wedding was over!

Post # 11
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626 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

NO WAYYYYY im so ready to have the planning be over with. i’m a terrible bride.

Post # 12
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143 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I will probably also be in major withdrawel!  I have so much going on in my life, and I use wedding planning (and looking at weddingbee) as stress relief!  Although I do have a year and a month left, so we’ll see how it goes!

Post # 13
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183 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I got married in October (closing in on the one year mark!) and have major withdrawal. I loved all the projects and event planning. One of my good friends just asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding though, so I am really excited to help her out in any way I can!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I had none.  I was happy to be done & moving on to other projects.  We had to reorganize our basement, reorganize our house.  We are building a headboard & a side table, then painting our porch & front door.

I have to plan my sister and my husband 30th bday parties in the next year and a half.  We are going to have a convalidation ceremony, and we are going to have a party at our house after.  I’ll have plenty to plan & we have plenty to do.

My desire to stay connected to weddings keeps me coming back here!

Post # 15
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5977 posts
Bee Keeper

I was so relieved when the planning was over, and I got my life back! I wasn’t constantly worrying about what my mom was going to freak out about next and my life wasn’t consumed 24/7 by wedding stuff! It was wonderful…

But, I do love a good wedding…so I keep coming back for more :o)

Post # 16
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118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I know I will miss it. It has been stressful at times but it’s also fun to be so creative. 

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