Post # 1
I’m watching the movie The Vow, where a married couple is in an accident and the wife loses her memory. The husband tries to get her to fall in love with him all over again. She remembers up to a certain point in her life, but it was when she was still with her ex-fiance.
Do you think if you and/or your SO didn’t remember anything about one another, but your paths crossed, that you would fall in love all over again?
It certainly makes me think. I wonder if I forgot why I left my ex if I would want to go back or not. I would like to think that I would end up with Darling Husband. That I would recognize why my ex and I split and see the things that attracted me to Darling Husband and made me fall in love with him and marry him.
Post # 3
I would hope I would end up with my hubby again, hes my only true love…but I do have an ex-fiance that broke it off with me, so if I had lost my memory I may not know any different? Scary to think about…
Post # 4
If I only remembered being with my ex and not my husband, YES I would end up with my husband again. It’s because of being with my ex that I met my husband and appreciated how great of a person he is.
If the memory loss went further back and a different ex, I can’t say… It would be pretty devastating because then I wouldn’t remember moving here or anything… But if I woke up and some guy (and my family) was telling me I was married to him, then I would certainly date him and try to fall in love with him again. He’s my soulmate, so I know feelings would resurface.
Post # 5
I would think we would end up dating again. It’s a scary thing to lose your memory. The Vow was a really good movie.
Post # 6
I think about this sometimes! I think if I woke up in the hospital and my Fiance told me we were married– instead of me being with a previous partner– I would be so relieved! I’ve known him for a decade and the timing was never right for us to get together, until we finally made it work. I absolutely would fall in love with him all over again and I’d honestly be excited to see him when I woke up. (But then I’ve known Fiance forever so it wouldn’t be like seeing a stranger.)
Post # 7
My ex is a different person from when we got together, and not for the better, so I would definitely wind up with my husband again. It might take a while, though, since I married someone I’m not typically attracted to at first sight. But I know his heart, his kindness, his sensitivity, and his gentleness would win me over all over again like it did the first time. I’ve never found anyone even remotely like my husband.
Post # 8
I think I would definitely fall in love with my Fiance all over again. I truly think it was love at first sight for us..and I fall in love with him all over again all of the time, so I don’t think it would be a problem.
Post # 9
I think I would for sure. I fell in love with his great sense of humor and wit, and that has stood the test of time!
Post # 10
I think so. I truly believe we have a connection that neither of us can explain.
Post # 12
I think we would. He’s the only person who completely understands me.
Post # 13
yup! we met and dated at age 12 and had total puppy love then! at age 30 we re met and the puppy love started all over!
Post # 14
I hope so, but just like in the movie, I think I would need a chance to find myself and perhaps experiment with other people first; I don’t believe in love at first sight and think it’s something that builds as a relationship develops.
I know I wouldn’t fall for my ex. He used to be attractive, but I ran into him not long ago and that beer belly he’s developed would not attract me back to him! 😉
Post # 15
I DO! because i fell in love with him 10 years ago when we first met, we had a brief thing going, but he was about to move across the country.. we stayed in touch, instant messaged or texted occasionally. he ended up with a gf..i ended up with a bf.. Then we started talking more often because he was coming home for a few months( both single at this point).. we hung out and fell crazy, ga-ga in love 😉 Then he moved back to be with me.