(Closed) Do you truly consider your FI to be your best friend?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Is your FI your best friend?
    *gasp* of course!! who else would be?? : (272 votes)
    74 %
    i love him/her to death, but someone else is my best friend : (39 votes)
    11 %
    i have multiple best friends and he/she is one of them : (59 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

    Absolutely, yes.  Technically my bridesmaids/men are my best friends, but I only talk to one of them every day or every other day briefly, and I see each of them maybe once every 2 or 3 months.  I spend almost all my time (that’s not working or commuting) with Fiance, we can talk about and share everything and we have the same ideas/thoughts as well.

    Post # 4
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    687 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    He is one of my closest friends, so yes. He is my best friend. We’ve been through so much together and on our personal journeys and it made us really closer together. I am happy he is and we can share so much of ourselves. I voted that I have multiple best friends, and he is one of them. 🙂

    With my ex f. ex I didn’t feel that way. 

    Post # 5
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    9688 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Yes.  He’s my best friend in the entire world.  He is the one who knows me the best, cares for me the most, spends the most time with me and also considers me his best friend in the entire world.  We have a very strong bond and we’re extremely intimate.  We have no secrets from each other.

    This is being honest and with no hesitation.

    My best girlfriend lives in Ohio now and I miss her dearly, but even she isn’t as close to me as he is.  🙂

    Post # 6
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    8042 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I don’t know why so many people get in a tizzy about this (not saying you are, OP). I know there are lots of debates about this subject. To me it’s all just semantics.

    I have a ‘best friend’ who is a girl. I’ve know her 10+ years… she’s my closest friend, or ‘best’ friend I guess.

    My boyfriend is my friend and lover. I guess when it comes down to it, he’d be my best friend… but I would never call him that because to me it’s one of those ‘duh’ things that he’d be the first person you go to when something is wrong or whatever. I guess I just use the label ‘best friend’ for my closest friend, and then the ‘boyfriend’ ‘husband’ etc. label for the man in my life lol.

    Post # 7
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    3943 posts
    Honey bee

    Yes, he is my best friend.

    I had a much closer connection to my girl friends when I was younger. When we spent every weekend at bars, the beaches, etc. But relationships change and people change. I still love my girls, but my FH is my true best friend and the only one that really understands me.

    Post # 8
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    687 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    @canarydiamond:  I totally agree. I don’t call my Fiance best friend, but we know we are. I always talk about him as my FI- Boyfriend or Best Friend etc. 🙂

    Post # 9
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    32 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I have a female best friend (my MOH) and a male best friend (my FI), and I’m so lucky to have known both of them for about 10 years now.

    Post # 10
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    5011 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Absolutely. He’s the person I most want to spend time gossiping with, hanging out with, watch movies with and do pretty much anything else with.

    Post # 11
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    812 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Without a doubt, he’s my best friend.

    Post # 13
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    254 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Yes, totally. Even if we weren’t together, he’d still be my best friend. I love him so, so much, but I also like him a lot. Know what I mean? 

    Post # 15
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    2750 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Yes.  He is my best friend, I also have my brother and two cousins (who were bridesmaids).  They are best friends/family.  Other than that, I have some “close friends” but I’ve never really given my heart away to a “best friend”.

    Post # 12
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    9483 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Yes, he is my best friend.  I never got along with girls to begin with and guys were always considered my best friends.  Just turns out we’re in love and getting married.

    Post # 14
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    1963 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I have two best friends, and he is the closer of the two (by far!)  My other best friend has been my bestie since grade school, but she’s not as close as Fiance.

    Post # 16
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    786 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    He absolutely is my best friend and he tells me all the time that I am his.  I think it’s ok for your Fiance not to be your best friend, but he should be a close #2.  I do have a best friend girl friend but even that friendship doesn’t compare to mine and FI’s.

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