(Closed) Do you trust your husbands friends? ( open discussion )

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Absolutely!  Actually Darling Husband doesn’t have a whole bunch of friends.  His three best friends all live out of town.  When his best friend from high school is in town the two of them sit right here in the family room and chat in front of/with me.  I try to scoot out and give them space but they invite me into the conversation.  If they go anywhere it is usually for some home improvement purpose for his parent’s house.  The rest of DH’s guy friends are actually my friends too.  We mostly hang out as couples rather than as singles.  

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Mrsgurzakovic:This is a great question! I’m in a LDR too but since Fiance and I struck a deal to only drink on special occasions I feel so much better when he goes off with his marine buddies. I know he has to choose responsible friends otherwise he’ll be stuck taking care of the drunk guy LOL.

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Implicitly.  I would trust them all with his life and mine, but prob not all of his work buddies.  Complete difference.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

Definitely. 

1. I trust him.

2. They’re largely my friends too, so it’s not an issue. Even those who would go with him if we split up generally are trustworthy or at worst harmless.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I trust my partner’s taste in friends.  I don’t personally know all his friends, but if he trusts them, that’s good enough for me.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

My Fiance doesnt have many friends. He moved from Michigan to Pennslyvania to make our relationship work and has lost friends due to it. Anyway, he has one friend that I don’t like. It’s from his hometown and hes still into the whole drug scene and thinking its really cool. My Fiance will hang out with him once when hes home…and its for not even an hour…my Fiance used to be just like him, but he’s grown up a lot since he has been with me and he doesn’t see drinking, drugs, etc as cool. He would be the only friend to worry about, but my Fiance has it under control haha. 

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Mrsgurzakovic:  I don’t worry, but I also know that I completely trust him and I know what his boundries are and how he reacts when someone crosses them.  Shoot, I have seen one of his buddies nearly snatch up a chick who was trying to grab DHs rear.  Our friends don’t play that way.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Completely.

The only group of “his’ friends that aren’t also “ours”, is a small social circle of guys he went to high school and played hockey with that have kept in touch. 

They’re a little rough around the edges: blue collar type with their share of history & trouble…  but they’re good guys at heart.  He doesn’t see them much, a couple times a month in the summer to play golf.  But it’s never crossed my mind not to trust them nor him with them.

Post # 13
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Mrsgurzakovic:  Most of the time they don’t know, I actually find that to be a compliment (and if it gets me a free carwash, old gas station lady flirt away).  If they do know and do it anyway, Darling Husband usually has some witty quip that he throws out…I am so proud.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Definitely do. A lot of them are my friends too, or at least know me and respect me. I also trust my husbands taste in friends, so if he’s going out with people I don’t know, I trust he wouldn’t get into a bad situation.

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

My husband really only hangs out with his best friend and I trust him. Also, he is married to my best friend, so the two guys know not to do anything stupid or they’ll get in trouble big time x2!

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