(Closed) Do you trust your husbands friends? ( open discussion )

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
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1088 posts
Bumble bee

@Mrsgurzakovic: I trust all my FI’s friends except one. Ahhh & he’s a groomsman. He’s a big party guy and ladies man. He thinks life is work, party and have sex with as many women as possible!  He respects a getting married but once he told Fiance why settle down with me?? My Fiance got into an argument with him over it and since then from what I hear he’s been pretty supportive. I don’t trust him but my I trust my Fiance and even my Fiance tells me that his friend is Wild and just wants to have a good time all the time! 

Post # 33
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

DH has really great friends. Seriously, they are great guys. I am also surprised and amazed at what great guys they are. I am ALWAYS invtsited when they hang out and thats really nice. Its hard to explain. They are completly different group than I ever grew up with…which is a VERY good thing. I dont worry about them at all

Post # 34
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I trust my husband’s friends whole-heartedly.  Actually, the majority of them are my friends too! 🙂

Post # 35
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181 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Actually yes I do trust them. They are overall a great group of guys. They might joke about being vulgar or whatever but they always are respectful of relationships and the women who come around (dating etc).

I recall when his friend was getting a divorce because his wife cheated on him. It wasn’t a physical affair but more so an emotional one and all the guys got together and hung out and tried to take his mind off it. They were appalled by her and her actions and I think that spoke volumes about their character. They would never encourage one person in a relationship to do anything to hurt the other person. Jokingly, perhaps (even when I’m around we joke about stuff) but if it came down to something serious it would never happen.

Post # 36
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Completely. From the minute I met his friends, I was their friend too. They’re all really awesome people. There’s a couple who have some extra curicular activities that I’m not fond of, but I trust my husband to make the right choices while hanging out with those few people. Otherwise, his friends are really amazing and I only wish I had as many good friends as he does!

Post # 37
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I trust him & them. His best buddies are all his family because his cousins & uncle all hang out together, play golf, are around the same age or into the same things, ect. & They are my friends also as are their fiance’s and wifes! 

If they was the type to be flirting/cheating, ect. My husband would have the respect for me and him self to not hang out with them or get into a bad situation. I trust him 100% with my life. 

 

Post # 38
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2790 posts
Sugar bee

Honestly I would trust my SO with absolutely any of his friends. He has one of the best moral compasses of anyone I’ve ever met. He is the utmost trustworthy person I know and if he goes out with friends (male or female) he goes out to have a good time but never would do anything he knows I would frown upon.

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