(Closed) Do you want your proposal to be a surprise?

posted 10 years ago in Waiting
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  • Post # 18
    735 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    At this point, I just want it to happen. I know it will. But I don’t think it can be a surprise because I know too much.

    Post # 20
    687 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    I would love for it to be a surprise. I would probably cry. My SO is not generally the most romantic guy, so if he went through the effort of getting a ring and surprising me with it, I would probably melt.

    Post # 21
    95 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I think my desire to have the proposal be a surprise is what keeps me from having the conversations that are so important! People I know (outside of the bee) keep telling me that I just have a serious talk, where i outline the timeline and what is going to happen- but there’s something so romantic and exciting about having no idea about when its going to happen!

    Post # 22
    68 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I was very adament of how big of a surprize I wanted & he totally pulled it off! I had NO idea & Mr. C isn’t the best romantic either. It was awesome! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 23
    1058 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I hope he surprises me this summer. When I go on a trip with him and his entire family and church family. We are all going away together for the weekend and I think a beach proposal would be very nice.

    I’m trying not to get my hopes up just in case he doesn’t do it then… I won’t be disappointed or anything…, but already I AM SO READY!!!! I CAN JUST FEEL THAT IT WILL HAPPEN SOON!

    Post # 24
    1664 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Mine was sort of a surprise.  We ring shopped together and I had a pretty good idea that it would be happening within a week of when it did.  It was a low-key proposal and I like it that way.  I’m one of those people that would die of embarassment if my SO proposed in public.  I know it is romantic, but it’s just not for me/us.  If I liked things like that, I think I would want it to be a surprise, if that makes any sense ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 25
    3135 posts
    Sugar bee

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    +1 exactly.

    We didn’t go ring shopping together but I was pretty sure he’d bought it since he asked me what my ring size was and told me he needed the info by such and such a date (real smooth eh? lol)

    My proposal was just me him and our dog high up on a hill.  It was good because the things my fiance said were so beautiful and touching that I really doubt he would have been able to say as much in public ๐Ÿ™‚


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