(Closed) Do you worry about how some guests will behave at your wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I do! for me it is mostly my fiances friends I worry about..a lot of them are friends he hasnt hung out with in years and that is because they are “bad apples” so to speak. He grew out of that scene but many of them have not and I worry about them getting overly drunk and/or smoking weed at my wedding! I dont want my guests to think that I am associated with their behaviour or that I condone it in any way!

The person I am slightly worried about is my mom. She is very opinionated and if someone disagrees with her on something she has a tendancy to fly off the handle and scream at poeple, I dont want her getting into a fight with fiances mother or something and causing a scene 🙁

My plan is just to enjoy my day and if I see any of the situations arrise I will walk over there immediately and put an end to it (ie- someone smoking pot, I would walk up and say ” I dont care if you want to smoke pot in your home, but this is my wedding day and I would appreciate if you would be respectful of that and not engage in illegal activities at my reception” )

Post # 4
7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m actually worried about the bridal party hahaha, we’re a bunch of crazy ppl when we drink and party so it will be interesting to see. We alerady have bets on who’s going to hook up with who hehe

Post # 5
1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Yes!!! I am worried about my FI’s ex..IF she shows up – not at the ceremony, the reception!

Post # 6
11232 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Rivendeler:  LOL I am definitely worried that FI’s ex will make an appearance at the ceremony. I doubt she would in reality, but in the back of my mind, I’m afraid that she’ll decide to take a walk through the park we’re having it in. 

I’m worried about several people, but I’m sure it’ll be fine (I hope).

The topic ‘Do you worry about how some guests will behave at your wedding?’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors