Post # 1
I’m pretty sure that everyone here will think I’m a freak for asking this but I know it’s almost a common well-accepted part of society that men to id, but we never or rarely talk about women doing it.
Post # 3
I definitely do. Darling Husband travels for work every week and I’m at home all by myself. But when he’s around, I just use him! 🙂
EDITED TO ADD: All of my answers to eloping‘s questions below match hers. It actually makes for really good foreplay on occasion when Darling Husband watches….
Post # 4
poll: do you “pleasure yourself”
ah, there is the clue i was looking for because i didnt understand the vagueness at first – just ask straight questions is my motto
do i masturbate? yes
do i use toys? yes
does my hubby know? yes
does he mind? no
Post # 5
I have no probably saying I flick the bean! haha
Like they say in the Ugly Truth, “If you don’t want to have sex with you, why would anyone else want to?” HAHA!
Post # 6
I can honestly say that I don’t. Unless Fiance is in a mood where we wants to watch, I don’t feel the need to. I usually come to him when I get the urges 🙂
Post # 7
flick the bean! haha! i’ve never heard that but i like it. And im with eloping on this one…i could answer the same to all those questions.
Post # 8
I’m not ashamed saying that I frequently do, too. He can’t be held responsible for my every urge..because that would be like alll the time. So he lets me when I must.
Post # 9
I’ve never heard of that term either, but it’s cute! I think all girls / guys do occasionally. It’s funny my Fiance will not admit to ever doing anything solo. He hasn’t denied it either, but he feels it’s “ungentlemanly” to tell me otherwise!
Post # 10
Of course! I always think it’s stupid that women don’t talk about this – we have a sex drive, too! And my SO isn’t always available, soooo….
Post # 11
@eloping: Ditto and amen 🙂
Post # 12
I have a higher sex drive than he does, so definitely.
Post # 13
Yes, of course. We were long distance for 2.5 years, I think I would have shrivelled up and died if I didn’t take care of business myself!
Post # 14
Yes…and so does Fiance….I had major surgery that screwed with my hormones and sex drive…Fiance would want it 3 times a day if I’d let him…and every so often he’s not in mood…so I say why not.
Post # 15
I did a LOT when we were LD. Now that we live together, I only do it if he is out of town or not home and I am extremely horny and can´t wait.
Post # 16
Yeah I do! I mean SO and I don’t do it at all were trying to abstain so I have urges and I statisfy them. Although it doesn’t compare to sex maybe because I’ve been doing it for so long. My SO doesn’t like to watch weird I know he thinks it’s gross.