(Closed) Do you ever flick the bean?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: do you "pleasure yourself"
    of course : (216 votes)
    76 %
    eww! : (14 votes)
    5 %
    men only do that... : (10 votes)
    3 %
    somtimes.. : (46 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
    13096 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I definitely do.  Darling Husband travels for work every week and I’m at home all by myself.  But when he’s around, I just use him! 🙂

    EDITED TO ADD: All of my answers to eloping‘s questions below match hers.  It actually makes for really good foreplay on occasion when Darling Husband watches….

    Post # 4
    5993 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010


    poll: do you “pleasure yourself”

    ah, there is the clue i was looking for because i didnt understand the vagueness at first – just ask straight questions is my motto

    do i masturbate?  yes

    do i use toys? yes

    does my hubby know? yes

    does he mind? no

    Post # 5
    489 posts
    Helper bee

    I have no probably saying I flick the bean! haha

    Like they say in the Ugly Truth, “If you don’t want to have sex with you, why would anyone else want to?” HAHA!

    Post # 6
    1057 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I can honestly say that I don’t. Unless Fiance is in a mood where we wants to watch, I don’t feel the need to. I usually come to him when I get the urges 🙂

    Post # 7
    6998 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    flick the bean! haha! i’ve never heard that but i like it. And im with eloping on this one…i could answer the same to all those questions.

    Post # 9
    153 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I’ve never heard of that term either, but it’s cute! I think all girls / guys do occasionally. It’s funny my Fiance will not admit to ever doing anything solo. He hasn’t denied it either, but he feels it’s “ungentlemanly” to tell me otherwise!

    Post # 10
    3378 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Of course!  I always think it’s stupid that women don’t talk about this – we have a sex drive, too!  And my SO isn’t always available, soooo….

    Post # 11
    751 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    @eloping:  Ditto and amen 🙂

    Post # 12
    966 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I have a higher sex drive than he does, so definitely.

    Post # 13
    1480 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Yes, of course. We were long distance for 2.5 years, I think I would have shrivelled up and died if I didn’t take care of business myself!

    Post # 14
    548 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    Yes…and so does Fiance….I had major surgery that screwed with my hormones and sex drive…Fiance would want it 3 times a day if I’d let him…and every so often he’s not in mood…so I say why not.

    Post # 15
    633 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I did a LOT when we were LD. Now that we live together, I only do it if he is out of town or not home and I am extremely horny and can´t wait. 

    Post # 16
    1296 posts
    Bumble bee

    Yeah I do!  I mean SO and I don’t do it at all were trying to abstain so I have urges and I statisfy them.  Although it doesn’t compare to sex maybe because I’ve been doing it for so long.  My SO doesn’t like to watch weird I know he thinks it’s gross.

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