Do you and your husband's/fiance's wedding bands match?

posted 5 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Do you and your husband/fiance have (or will get) matching wedding rings?
    Yes, ours match! : (15 votes)
    14 %
    No, they don't match, because we have different styles : (81 votes)
    78 %
    No, they don't match, for another reason (work requirements, etc.) : (8 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    1129 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    We don’t have ours yet, but they wont match. I want an eternity band and he wants a plain one so yeah hehe.

    Post # 4
    1264 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Ours don’t match, but we do have the same metal. I have a platinum channel set diamond wedding band, and my husband has a plain platinum wedding band.


    Post # 5
    1344 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013 - Vine Street Church

    Pretty much. We both went with very simple bands (you can just barely see my band under my engagement ring):

    Post # 6
    4770 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We got ours in Germany and there it is customary that they match. I love our rings.

    Post # 7
    2610 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - Madison, WI

    Ours do not match, mine is white gold with diamonds and his is yellow gold. Just personal preference. 

    Post # 8
    301 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Nope. I have a diamond wedding band and he opted for a black titanium/carbon fiber ring since it was super lightweight.

    Post # 9
    480 posts
    Helper bee

    Ours won’t match in metals, but they will match in style. My e-ring is very organic and floral-inspired (with a matching w-band), and we will be getting him a band inspired by a tree trunk. My set is yellow gold, and his ring will be titanium. 

    Post # 10
    534 posts
    Busy bee

    @Creiddylad:  Ours won’t match because mine will coordinate with my custom weddinf band, and his is from his grandmother’s late spouse. They were together over 30 years but never married. She bought him a yellow gold and onyx ring in the 80s and passed it on to my SO after Cedric died. SO decided to use it as his wedding band when we marry because he wont wear more than one ring, and the ring means more to him than some random ring he’d buy.

    I originally wanted white gold, but SO said he’d like if our rings matched. That was several years ago and I’ve fallen in love with yellow gold.

    Post # 11
    851 posts
    Busy bee

    Ours don’t match at all. Mine is palladium with diamonds — simple and matches my ering. His is titanium lined with Koa wood. His needed to be super durable and he is a huge nature freak so it fit his personality so much better than a plain band. 

    Post # 12
    603 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    Ours will not be the same style since mine is a 5 stone ring, but they match color wise. 

    Post # 13
    24 posts
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I am so particular that ours have to match. Our starter set might not, because I don’t know if it is going to be in the budget to get a new set for me, but we have to find something for him. It bugs him, but he agrees. 


    The only problem is we both prefer the look of white gold, but I am afraid I’m going to have an allergic reaction. The last 10k white gold ring I wore, my finger broke out. My e-ring is 14k and the ring I wear on my right hand is either 12k or 16k (I’m honestly don’t remember off the top of my head and the inscription is weird, because it’s black hills gold) Both yellow gold. 


    Post # 14
    2073 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Ours aren’t even close to matching. I have a thinwhite gold and diamond eternity band. His ring is a much, much thicker tungsten ring. Given his job, it was important to us that the tungsten can be shattered in case of an emergency. We both have different styles but the safety factor was the ultimate deciding factor in us having mismatched rings.  


    Post # 15
    1270 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 1994

    Our original set matches. 


    I also have a second ring that my husband bought me, that goes with his, but they aren’t identical matching. Our original set has a tree with a heart and initials carved look. My second ring is a tree branch with leaves (so it still goes with his). 

    I want to at some point get a 5 or 6 stone ring though. I like to mix it up!

    Post # 16
    1366 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    They’re from the same designer but don’t match. His is actually a triangle, mine are two rings that fit together like a puzzle.

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