(Closed) Do your parents like your spouse?

posted 10 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: Do your parents like your spouse?
    Yes, I think they both love my spouse! : (62 votes)
    87 %
    Yah they both like my spouse all right... but I can tell they don't love him/her (yet)! : (8 votes)
    11 %
    Split decision - one parent likes them, the other one doesn't. : (0 votes)
    Naw my parents don't really like my spouse... but we all pretend we get along. : (0 votes)
    No, they both dislike my spouse greatly and it's caused major familial distress! : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5398 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    My parents live my Mr.  Shoot, he’s super handy around the house so he’s done so much for my mom and my grandma, so I swear they may love him more than me!

    Post # 4
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    37 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: April 2008

    My parents love my hubby. He fixes their computer and loads songs on their Ipods for them. Hehe. So they call him more often than they call me.

    Post # 5
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    754 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2008

    My parents adore my husband.  I know this to be true because one day at dinner my mom offered my husband a bite of her dinner, from her plate.  She never lets anyone touch her plate (germs!).  I knew then that she truely had accepted him into the family.  We all had a laugh about that later that night, and she admitted that no one but a member of the family would be allowed eat from her plate.

    Post # 6
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    123 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    When we were home for Thanksgiving my dad pulled me aside before we left and said "I really like your guy" with a huge smile on his face.  It meant a lot to me.

    Post # 7
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    271 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We’ve been together for 5 years. My mom had a  problem with him in the beginning just because he was unlike my past boyfriends and she wasn’t a fan of his blue collar job. After about 3 years she has totally turned around. She always wants him to come and vist and she considers him to be her son. I think the turning point was when she realized how much he loved me and cared about me and my son. How can you say no to that?

    Post # 8
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    538 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    Me and my future spuse live with my mom. She loves him. They have similar taste in movies and will watch them together on a night when I have plans. Thats typically how they bond because I do not have the same taste as them in movies.

     My dad loves him as well. They do not know each other as well, but my dad was really happy when he asked to marry me.

    I think his parents love me too. I lived at their summer home with them for two sumemrs during college. We got know each other pretty well. I love hanging out with them. His father and I both love scrabble, so thats how we bond.

     

    Post # 9
    Member
    1718 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2008 - Winery in the Gold Country

    I think my mom wishes she was married to Mr. Peng.  It’s kinda gross. I love that she loves him but um.  Yeah.

    Post # 10
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    1356 posts
    Bumble bee

    It has been a long road for me and my FH. He and I have been friends since we were 11 (fifteen years ago) so my parents have seen a lot of the…uh…growing up blunders shall we say. But my parents LOVE him. Seriously LOVE him. We aren’t married yet, but my Mom loves introducing him as her "future son-in-law" and talks about how excited she is to be getting a son (she has 4 daughters).

    Post # 11
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    88 posts
    Worker bee

    My parents love my husband. They both enjoy spending time with him and know hoe happy he makes me. My parents live no where near us so we do not seem them very often.

    Post # 12
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    208 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2008

    My parents definitely like my husband, but I get the impression that it’s more of a "we like him because he treats you well and you love him" kind of thing. I dated my ex-bf for five years and my parents really bonded with him. Plus, Darling Husband and I have only known each other for 2.5 years. So I think their feelings are a consequence of getting the energy to attach themselves to another man, plus not having as much time to get to know him. They’ll love him someday, though 🙂

    Post # 13
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    521 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2009

    I don’t think.  I know.  In fact, sometimes I think they might like him more than me, haha!

    Post # 14
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    115 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    My parents really really really like my guy.  Like peachypear, I think a lot of it is that he’s terrific for me and so considerate, but he and my dad are also both architects so they bond over that.  My mom thinks he’s great too. 

    It took them a while to get less formal, since we live farther from them and I usually go drop by my parents’ place on the way home from work (alone).  Once we went out with them a few times, and they met his parents, it got a lot more family-like.  FI’s parents like me quite a bit too; I think both sets of parents just think that we’re great for each other and are happy for us.

    Post # 15
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    41 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: January 2008

    My Mom came over to hang out and I found her delicately folding his boxers.  She was so tender and loving it was wierd for me but she loves him and thinks of him as another son.

    Post # 16
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    80 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    MissPickle…that is serious love there. That’s hard core MOM LOVE. ^_^

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