(Closed) Do your pregnant friends annoy you?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’ve never been annoyed by any pregnant friends just for the reasons you mentioned. But just because she had a belly before she got pregnant doesnt mean she doesnt feel bigger/heavier now. I think you should try to be a bit more understanding… maybe I’m biased because I’m pregnant and feel yucky right now

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’d find it annoying, too. It seems like this is the Summer of Babies, so it feels like I’m constantly hearing about other people’s pregnancies and seeing five million status updates a day on Facebook. 

I’d tell her that while you’re happy/excited for her (even if it’s not true), you’re feeling a little overwhelmed with the constant baby talk.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Sometimes it does get annoying. Like how many times do you need to tell people that you are eating for two? I’m sure they can see that!

When I was pregnant, I did hold my belly a lot. I think it’s just an instinct thing and not a I’m trying to be annoying thing. I didn’t talk about it all the time though.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Idk, she is probably just excited. And just because she wasn’t tiny before she got pregnant, doesn’t mean she doesn’t feel a lot bigger. She may also be worried that ppl think she is just heavy if she isn’t really “showing” as pregnant. So, she may be self conscious about that too and want to make sure they know why.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Pregnancies can be just like weddings where some people expect the world to focus on them and not the other way around. As a first time mother she might expect to be treated differently now that she is pregnant. Not everyone acts that way, but some do. Aren;t there some brides who feel that during their entire engagment they should be put on a pedestal? Same concept.

Personally as a pregnant woman, I do call my “unborn child” by his name. I talk to him regularly and my Fiance calls his name when he is speaking to him. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Not to sound rude, but is there some jealousy between you that makes you feel this way towards her and not any other pregnant moms to be? This sounds personal as opposed to generalization.

 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

I’m constantly annoyed by my new mommy friend. I know it’s a huge, life altering thing..but come onnnnnnnnnn. I don’t need you to text me daily pictures of him. Especially when I get a picture of the two of you laying on the couch cuddling, while I’m at my bridal shower. You know, the one you never RSVP’d to and didn’t show up for?

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I don’t find all pregnant women annoying but there are definitely a few I could do without. For example, unless you saw her ever growing belly, you wouldn’t have even known my Future Sister-In-Law was pregnant. I never heard her complain about a thing beyond the occasional heartburn. My friend, on the other hand, pretty much complains non-stop. I’m sure she’s uncomfortable but constantly complaining about it isn’t going to make it any better.

What annoys me more is when you’re with more than one pregnant woman and you’re the only one not knocked up and all they talk about is being pregnant. The absolute last thing that I want to discuss is the horrors of pregnancy and child birth. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

There are a handful of people who act like they are the fist people on earth to get pregnant and whine about everything.   Most don’t annoy me, but I had to hide a friend’s newsfeed on my FB because she complained every.single.day about it.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

@SFreeman2187: Honestly, yes some do. It’s the attention whore ones that bug me the most. As someone said before, the ones that want everyone to know how special they are tend to grate the most. After seeing and hearing so many pregnancies this summer, when I’m pregnant, I intend to avoid the attention whore route altogether like no fb status updates or belly pictures. I think that there’s a fine line between being excited about your pregnancy and being a total attention whore about it. 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

It depends on which pregnant friend.  I think all pregnancies are different and maybe some people really just are that much more uncomfortable than others, but yes the over sharing can sometimes get old.  I’m trying to learn from others experiences about how I hope to handle things when I go down that road.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@brox: Funny you say that! I have not posted one belly or sonogram pic on FB. Other than a few mentions of the pregnancy I have not said anything. Mainly because this has been a difficult pregnancy so I would be posting all time and I see other people doing it and get turned off by it. My hospital stays were not up there and unless you go through my posts you would not even know about the baby. So not all of us are like that.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Only the ones that were annoying before they got pregnant.

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