(Closed) Do your wedding bands match your SOs?

posted 7 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Do your wedding bands match?
    Yes they are the perfect pair : (26 votes)
    13 %
    No, but they are close : (29 votes)
    15 %
    No they are nothing alike! and it dose not matter! : (135 votes)
    70 %
    Other...(please explain) : (3 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    We have matching white gold bands. Matching bands was important to me. I think it looks nice and it’s kind of symbol of unity. Until I came on the bee, I didn’t realize how many couples opt for totally different bands

    Post # 4
    1844 posts
    Buzzing bee

    totally  not important to me personally. Darling Husband wanted tungsten and the only female tungsten ones we could find were super wide. I wanted rose gold or organic looking to match my e-ring… that obviously woudln’t fit his style.

    Ours do not match and I am kind of glad, we can do our own thing and the only time anyone would really see them side my side is when we would be holding hands or in pictures or someing. Im not too worried about it


    Post # 4
    2104 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Not really.  They are both white gold, but his has a hammered finish.

    Post # 5
    1048 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Ours don’t match. I’m using a family heirloom band (it looks like a brassy gold, there are other metals mixed in). Fiance is using a new white gold ring.

    Post # 6
    1011 posts
    Bumble bee

    Well, actually mine is so much smaller, it fits inside his and is narrower.  He really wanted matching bands.  I wanted the band that matched my ering.  We compromised.  We got matching bands and then he got me the other band for our first anniversary.

    Post # 7
    2280 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    An exact match. It wasn’t an important detail to us, we just so happened to both want something simple. 🙂

    Post # 8
    8604 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Mine is platinum and his is palladium so the color is almost exactly the same, but other than that they’re totally different.

    Post # 9
    3241 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Ours match. Before we were married and looking for wedding bands, it didn’t matter to me if we found matching wedding bands. Hubby found our wedding bands and now I’m very happy that they match.

    Post # 10
    14657 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Not even close.

    Post # 11
    299 posts
    Helper bee

    They’re almost the same size (stupid enormous fingers)… other than that nope.  Doesn’t matter, they were both in our wedding and that’s all I care about 🙂

    Post # 12
    226 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2007

    Nope…not even close.  He wanted a ring that has yellow gold in it and I hated yellow gold.  DH ended up getting a platinum ring with yellow gold stripe in the middle, I ended up getting a white gold half eternity band.  

    Post # 13
    232 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2012 - The Chapel of the Sir Christopher Wren Building, 2007 Legacy Hall

    Our rings are COMPLETELY different. Mine is a white gold eternity band and delicate looking. His is tungsten and bulkier. It really wasn’t important to us if they matched, so we never attempted to find anything that did. If you’re really set on them matching, I say keep looking a little longer. If it was more an issue of them matching being what you thought you were supposed to do, then go with the styles y’all are drawn to individually. Good luck!

    Post # 14
    2791 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Our rings are different! Mine is 14k white gold with 7 diamonds. His is 10k white gold with a brushed finish in the middle. 

    My mom always used to say that wedding bands should match, hers and my dad’s do. Fiance and I just have different tastes that’s all!

    Post # 15
    533 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Ive always felt its kinda weird when wedding banda dont look alike. I think the symbol of unity is more important than personal preferences. And a compromise of some sort can be reached. We plan on getting ours matching.

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