Post # 1
Before I got engaged, I had weird dreams about my now Fiance proposing and me hating the ring and not knowing what to do. Thankfully, I love my ring so those dreams had no stake.
After I got engaged, the real dreams started. I’ve had insane dreams about loosing my ring, my dress being hideous, but having NO time to exchange it,,. About the wedding venue being horrible, or trashed, about my dress being stained or someone spilling something on me. About people ruining the ceremony, about people making terrible speeches, nobody showing up, even some dreams of me getting pregnant and having to walk down the aisle with a huge preggo belly! 😛 (No offense to expecting brides!!)
I wouldn’t call these nightmares, but I feel SO stressed out in the dream, and I’m SO relieved when I wake up and figure out it all wasn’t true. Maybe I’m just a little stressed about the wedding, haha, or maybe I’m worrying too much.. haha
Has anyone else experienced this??
Post # 3
Happens to me all the time. I have this recurring dream that I’m not ready in time and have to walk down the aisle in a robe, hot rollers and slippers lol. It’s rather amusing as I know it wont happen. Other dream is that all my guests leave right after dinner. I’m left standing there and no one is in the room. I know this might have something to do with my fears about the wedding. Were having a small 50 guest wedding, and I keep thinking it wont be as fun as the 100+ guests wedding, silly I know but it’s a valid concern I have which is why I keep dreaming about an empty room.
Post # 4
I had a dream that I fell into a lake! We have a small lake at the venue and you better belive I will be staying VERY far away.
Post # 5
I had a dream the other night that my rehearsal dinner was held at a local truck stop/restaurant. Romantic, eh?
I’ve also keep thinking about these worse-case senarios on my wedding day, like spilling food on my dress, kids walking up and touching my dress with dirty hands, and my venue canceling on me at the last minute.
Ugh, please tell me that these thoughts go away!
Post # 6
@thatredheadedbride: haha, kids walking up to you with dirty hands.. Oh now I’m going to dream about that tonight. 😛
Post # 7
I dreamed my FH was 2 hours late! CRAZY!!!!
Post # 8
Weirdly enough, I didn’t have any wedding nightmares until AFTER the wedding! The other night, I dreamed that my husband’s sister/groomschick unplugged the straightening iron (for my hair) before I used it. I was wearing my wedding dress, and I had to bend down and crawl under a table to plug it back in. I called her a b**** and yelled at her. In real life, she was wonderful at the wedding! I have no idea why I dreamed that…
Post # 9
@futuremrssykes: haha, sometimes I have dreams where my Fiance does something mean or bad and i get mad at him irl. haha, but he quickly brings me back to reality. 😛
Post # 10
@Future_Ms.Bostonceltics: I’ve had the “not prepared” dream, too!
In fact, it’s been a recurring dream since I was a little girl. It’s the day of, and I don’t have a dress or anything. I try to rush to get everything together, and by the time i realize I can’t do it, it’s too late to postpone. *shudder*
Post # 11
I’ve had a few interesting ones, there’s quite a few where I am missing my shoes… Like I have all the other accoutrements, but no shoes. I wonder what that means psychoanalytically, cause I’ve also dreamed I’ve shown up to work without my shoes on…
I’ve also dreamed that I’ve shown up at the wrong church or that the flowers are missing or that people I didn’t invite show up and they’re mad I didn’t invite them! Good to know other people are dreaming about this too!
Post # 12
I’ve had a few. Last night I had one that both the officiant and photographer forgot to show up and then my all my teeth fell out. (The teeth thing has been a lifelong theme in my dreams, but I always find it really disturbing!)
Post # 13
Yup, almost every night actually. I dream about me being extremely late to the ceremony, or about him being kidnapped and I have to postpone the wedding. Sometimes other dreams really bother me too, like me waking up late so I have to skip hair & makeup and just throw on my dress.