(Closed) Does anyone else ever feel left out?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Yes, some friends feel that I can’t relate to where they are coming from. Maybe I can’t because I have been dating FH since we were 17. We still talk about life, and are there for each other, but I guess FH is my new BFF now. It’s cool because I have experiened this since last my junior year in college.

Post # 4
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393 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

i ttotally feel left out sometimes but for a different reason. i have 2 kids!! I got knocked up with my first son when i was 19, not exactly what a normal 19 year old does. and time has flown by and somehow i’m 24 now, and i lost most of my friends. kinda sad how people suck like that!

Post # 5
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5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

As, part of the reason why I’m let out is because when we first graduated from high school a lot of people were dating their high school boyfriends. As everyone began breaking up, we began losing friends (I guess we didn’t have that in common anymore). Now me and FH are the only couple still together after high school and we are more into settling down.

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2010

when i was single, a group of single gfs and i would plan to go out…sometimes we wouldn’t invite people in serious relationships cuz you figure they are going to spend friday nights together.

my friends don’t invite me as much to their going out parties at the bar/club cuz they figure that i wouldn’t go.

that’s just the way it is.

Post # 7
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5154 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I feel ya! Me and my future hubbs live about 2 hours away from most of my girlfriends now so if I go or we both go visit then it is fine but when we lived near everyone, yes, this happened. It is hard but understandable and I don’t think people want to leave you out…they just assume you will want to be with your SO. Or maybe they think you’ll be calling/texting/talking about your SO the whole time.

Sorry you are going through this…and you arn’t alone 🙂 hang in there! suggest a girls night in/out that you host maybe? keep your head up!

Post # 8
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540 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

My friends started doing that to me. They wouldn’t ask me to go out with them or hang out or even call/text me like they used to. I was really sad about it and then I confronted the girl that I was most hurt by and she told me basically that I shouldn’t want to go out because I had a good man. My fiance works over 50 hours a week and is hardly ever home but to sleep. I told her that I get lonely sometimes and just because I’m getting married doesn’t mean I have to stay home and rot. I kind of think it was a little bit of a jealousy issue.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I hate when I don’t get invited to stuff because people think I am doing stuff with my fiance!  My Maid/Matron of Honor is terrible about that, I think that’s partially because of her insecurity about being single and partially because when she does have a boyfriend, all she does is spend time with him (she assumes I’m the same way).  There’s only so many times that you can explain to someone that you have a life outside of your relationship.  So annoying!

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@ LadyGoodman – Exactly. One of my bridesmaids and the girl I confronted is a single mom and wants to have a man soooooo bad. Like I don’t even understand why she wants a man so bad. But then again she has another friend that got married a year ago and they are best friends. I heard her say once though that she doesn’t think they will last. I guess getting married is a good way to tell who your real friends are…just wish it didn’t have to be like that.

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