(Closed) Does anyone else get paranoid about their engagement ring?

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
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7951 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Do you have a lot of little diamonds in your ring like pave or halo? Does the store where you got it from have a policy on diamond replacement? The jewelry store that sold FI my e-ring says they will replace any diamond that falls out. Sometimes stores also will do periodic inspections for you so they can maintain the setting if needed.

Post # 3
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5427 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2016

I think it’s just cause it’s new to you! I’ve had mine for 2 weeks tomorrow and haven’t worried about that! I did wear a stand in for 2 months though since my ring wasn’t ready so maybe I just got used to not worrying about it and the feel of having it there? 

Post # 4
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4167 posts
Honey bee

I was like that when I first got mine. Now I’m used to it and wear it pretty much everywhere.

In a few weeks you’ll probably be fine ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

That will die down over time. When I first or engaged I didn’t wash my hands without taking it off or I’d make sure I’d avoid getting soap suds on the ring and wouldn’t let my if hold my left hand as I didn’t want him to dirty it or scratch it and would take it off once I walked through the door. . Now I only take it off to sleep, shower and clean. Not that i’m not careful with it, it just becomes more a part of your outfit that you don’t always think about. 

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I’ve been married for almost a year but just recently upgraded my engagement ring. My diamond is really high set and I’ve been knocking it on things. I’m constantly looking at it in fear that I cracked or chipped my diamond. My ring is insured through our home owners but I’m still paranoid.

Post # 7
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Worker bee

I felt the same way! But after I got my ring insured I felt a lot better. I work with special needs students who are fairly physical and my fiance can’t believe I wear my ring to work but if I don’t wear it to work (where I spend most of my days!), where else will I wear it? But I figure, he bought it for me to enjoy and be proud of – and I love wearing it! Enjoy it, and be like me and be more conscious of bumping into things ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

I was paranoid as all hell about my ring at first, I spent one evening freaking out about the girdle reflection thinking it was a crack haha. I just take it off to do heavy duty cleaning and for a minute to put on lotion. Diamonds are strong. Unless you have a severly included ring to begin with, you’re not just going to break it nonchalantly! But do get it insured.

Post # 9
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665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I literally didnt use my left hand for the first couple weeks! I was holding it out and away from everything to protect it with my life! Ive had it just over a month and its already gone I am constanty hitting my diamond on everything. Its hard to get used to but you will get there!

Post # 10
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1336 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

i’m still sorta like that but when i clunk it against something i’ll just check and if it looks okay i stop panicing. i still take it off to wash my hands though. and i take it off before putting hand sanitizer. i work with little kids so it’s a definite must to hand sanitize! 

Post # 11
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2623 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

When I first got my ring, I babied it so much!! I cleaned it everyday, would take it off to wash my hands, even bought a Tiffany charm enhancer necklace so I could put keep my ring safe while I was at work (I’m also a nurse).

Now I’ve been married 2 yrs and only clean my rings once a month if that. I still take my rings off as soon as I get home but it’s more for comfort than anything lol.

The paranoia will fade and your rings will just be a part of you. But sometimes, there will be moments where they just catch your eye. Then you will enjoy your rings again!

Post # 12
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2427 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

When I was in the hospital after I had my son I saw a lot of nurses wearing their rings at work with pride. They didn’t seem to mind. If you want just put in a stand in ring at work and than put your real ones on when you get home. 

Post # 13
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990 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I’ve had mine about 6 months and I still knock it/catch it on stuff as it’s set quite high. I used to be really paranoid about damaging it but I’m pretty relaxed about it now…diamonds are hardy little things!

Like the OP, I don’t wear my ring to work as I’m in the emergency services. I know colleagues with lower set rings that do wear theirs but mines quite prominent and it would be hazardous and unhygienic to wear it. There would also be a risk I’d lose it ๐Ÿ™ 

I’ve deliberately chosen a simple plain wedding band so I’ll be able to wear it all the time! 

Post # 14
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12199 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

KMcKay:  I check the diamonds in mine all the time and i’ve had it for 18 months.  I’m always paranoid I’m going to lose a stone (i wouldn’t be if it wasn’t for the bee – never would have thought it was something that happens semi-regularly).

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Haha I was the same! I was so paranoid to the point of being afraid to wear it at all! It took me about a month to relax a little, and 3 months to realize nothing serious will happen to it lol. I bump it against things sometimes but my jeweler’s repair prices are crazy cheap and the main stone is insured so now i just wear it all the time ๐Ÿ™‚

You should get yours insured if it isn’t already. 

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