(Closed) Does anyone else have that "PERFECT" friend????

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I used to have a friend like this. It upset me at first that guys went after her, but then I realized how much fun it was just to hang out with her. And of course, if I told her I liked a guy she would totally help me out. Have fun and try to stop comparing yourself to her. You both have your own strengths. 

Post # 4
Member
6360 posts
Bee Keeper

Hmm, my best friend is pretty “perfect” to me, but not in the way you mean.

She is better than me at some things and it pushes me to work harder, but not in the dark, “envy” sort of way.

If you notice that the kind of feelings you have toward her tend to be the “ugly envy” kind, I would suggest avoiding her… that means finding a different roommate!

Post # 5
Member
3053 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

I kind of agree with @joya_aspera:, if you find that being around her is actually making you a WORSE person, I would personally stop hanging out with her. It’s not her fault obviously, and it kind of sucks that she has to lose a friend when she hasn’t done anything to deserve it but you definitely can’t let it make you a bad/worse person.

I would try to stop focusing on comparing yourself to her though & see if you can change your attitude.

Post # 7
Member
1177 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I have a friend like this. It’s awesome, because I am socially super-lazy and introverted, but I always meet new people through her. I think the trick is to stop comparing yourself to her, and start thinking “how lucky am I to have this awesome roommate?”

Post # 8
Member
1652 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Aaw don’t worry too much about it! I’m sure she has some flaws somewhere! Everyone does. Try not to compare yourself.

Post # 9
Member
8472 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

We all know nobody’s perfect… Don’t compare yourself to anyone… She sounds very confident, which is very attractive to people.. Who wants to hang out with a sour puss, you know?

Post # 10
Member
418 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

some people are just better at hiding their sh*t than others!  trust me, she has flaws.  we all do.

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