Post # 1
I had this dream a bunch before the wedding, and occasionally I still do. I talked to my aunt and she said she had before her wedding, too.
My version sometimes goes like this: I’m getting ready for the wedding, but I’m not pumped. I’m marrying my ex (or sometimes someone I don’t know who is ugly). And the whole time I’m confused. I keep thinking “I thought I was marrying someone way better? I thought I was dating someone handsome?”
And then I’ll walk down the aisle and I’m like no no no this isn’t right, but I can’t remember why.
And then I’ll remember I’m already married to my wonderful, handsome husband. And then I wake up.
Post # 3
I have had this dream too! Mine was more wedding-disaster-related, but one of the disasters was that I felt like I was marrying the wrong person…he just didn’t look like who I thought I was engaged too but in the dream I couldn’t figure it out. He was just “off”
I’m in doctorate school for psychology – I think I need to bring this up to some colleagues and see if there isn’t some deep rooted fear buried in all brides that makes this dream pop up lol
Post # 4
I haven’t had this dream (yet) but as far as I have read you (generally) dream about anything that you have thought of (even fleetingly) during your conscious hours, then your subconscious extrapolates from there.
It wouldn’t surprise me if lots of people experienced similar dreams (both male and female) previous to their marriages.
FWIW I had a dream about going wedding dress shopping and then somehow I ended up fighting zombies in a sample gown or something (this is totally normal for me to dream about zombies.. I know I’m “special” lol).
Post # 5
I totally had this dream. I was marrying my ex boyfriend, and it was being officiated by improv comedians in a theatre. I didn’t have a dress and just went and picked one from the prop room, and it was this Victorian getup.