(Closed) Does anyone else have trouble with condoms?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
2260 posts
Buzzing bee

Lots and lots of LUBE!!! SO and I are in a semi-LDR and so my body isn’t always used to using condoms and I find myself being very sensitive down-there afterwards. But if you use the right lube, it will make everything go a lot smoother IMO.

Post # 5
2496 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

@roxy821: Owwww… 🙁

I would try lots of lube too, but also switch up positions so you control the depth and angle so he doesn’t accidentally hit your cervix.  Try him sitting in a chair and you on top.  We tried that for fun, and it’s great!  I know my preggo friends also recommended that for pregnancy, so if you do get pregnant, it’s a good one to remember when your belly gets bigger.

Post # 6
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I personally do not mind condoms, but I switched to The Pill and I prefer to actually feel my man, all his little bumps and curves.  He agrees, as condoms can numb the natural ridges in your lady bits and not feel as pleasurable.  There are definitely a lot of choices when it comes to BC methods, so I’m not sure if it’s just the CONDOM that makes you feel uncomfortable or just the sensation of being touched in a vulnerable spot.  Like piglet_625 mentioned, try changing positions so your sensitive spot on your cervix isn’t being hit.  I hope you find something that works for you both!

Post # 7
907 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

What do you mean the condoms are not working? Are they breaking? Slipping off? Or is it just painful? Wouldn’t it also be painful if you weren’t using condoms?

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