(Closed) Does anyone else just hate to be touched sometimes?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
7429 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I feel this way at night. It gets pretty hot in our room at night, and if I’m hot, I dont’ want to be touched.

Post # 18
10713 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I hate being touched when I’m hot or when I’m sick… he knows… I get mean lol

Post # 19
241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

My husband and I are huge cuddlers. We fall asleep cudding. We might not be cudding when when wake up but we’re always super close to each other. If I get up in the middle of the night I wake him up just enough to cuddle with me again. For the longest we slept on the same pillow.

Post # 20
1089 posts
Bumble bee

Cuddle time is wonderful, but we both agree that when it’s sleep time, we want our own space.  🙂

Post # 21
124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m like this.  i consider myself super affectionate during the day (although even then there are times when it just irritates me to be touched), but I can rarely sleep while cuddling.  I wish I could, I feel like it would make me a better fiance 🙁  I think my fiance thinks I’m cold or not into intimacy sometimes.  But it’s really nothing personal, I just have back pain and I need to stretch out and toss and turn…

Post # 22
310 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Moving to a place with hot weather has made me see I am not always a cuddler or like being canoodled! I HATE hot weather. Bleck… 

It bothered my Honey, so I made adjustments…(air cond.)…balance once again. We’re in the middle of moving, I can’t wait till it snows at our new place!!!  Hot Cocoa and Sweater weather here I come. 


Post # 23
794 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

That is definately me at night!! Fiance always wants to lay his arms all over me.  Well I feel like im suffocating and cant sleep without my space.  Im pretty sure he gets upset but sleeping (by that I mean him snoring in my ear) all entwined is not worth a cranky me in the morning.

Post # 24
1212 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Ugh me! I like to spoon Mr. Roux in bed, but I move away when I’m ready to sleep.

What really bugs me is sometimes I just don’t want to be touched. I just want to sit on the couch, or walk to the kitchen, without Fiance hanging off me like a clingy toddler. And even after I ask him nicely to leave me alone, he thinks I’m upset about something and he tries to hug me, and I end up losing my sh*t and cracking it at him, and being in a bad mood for the rest of the day!

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