(Closed) Does anyone else practice DD? (Domestic Discipline) – Possibly TMI

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

*laugh* No i dont..i have never actually heard of it.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I’ve heard of it, and it’s not something I would do, but happy marriages come in all shapes and sizes.  So long as both parties involved agree on the ground rules and no one is walking away with welts, then to each his or her own.

(ETA:  That having been said, the idea of treating a grown woman like a little girl and spanking her for being “bad” does make me pretty uncomfortable.)

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Do you mean spanking in a dirty way? Like, she’s been a baaaaad girl?

lol

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@ejs4y8: lol I just pictured in my head my husband spanking me and saying “Who’s your Daddy?!” ha ha which weirds me out anyways cause Dad’s don’t talk like that haha.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Indiana Memorial Union

Infantilizing a grown woman is pretty demeaning to me.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

Haha nooooo.  My husband is definately stronger than me and is my protector if needed without any spankings necessary.  We tend to take the talk things out approach rather than paddle each others behinds.  Occasionally we will have a wrestling match but because they’re fun not because someone was ‘naughty’. 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@ejs4y8: That’s all I can imagine too…

If you mean it literally that when the husband decides the wife has misbehaved she gets a spanking, I find that kinda of one-sided.  Does the wife get to spank the husband if he behaves poorly?

I think I keep imagining “you’ve been a baaaaad girl” because this is in intimacy…if it’s actually a form of punishment (not pleasure, so to speak) I think this post would be more suited for the relationship board maybe?

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

If my husband were to try to spank me because he was upset at me, his ass would be down for the count!

I’ve never really heard of it, but I don’t see anything wrong w/ it if it’s consensual. To each their own…

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Indiana Memorial Union

@ShoeAddict: And when she’s pissed at him?

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper

Really? Oh come on now. I think this is a joke. I Love Lucy was a sitcom, and if it was done on that show, it was meant to be funny.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@ShoeAddict: So what happens if you’re pissed at him?

Post # 15
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Oh…he’s pissed at me so he spanks me?

I can’t even wrap my brain around it

(i think i remember that episode and they were chasing each other around–and it was really funny!)

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