(Closed) Does anyone feel like they are going SOLO with their wedding, no help etc.

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@ashleyk_xox:  oh you poor thing, that is horrible. Can your Fiance help by tidying the house?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

What’s your Fiance doing? Seems like he could clean up at least.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@ashleyk_xox:  Where is your FI? That is the only person that NEEDS to be helping you and not necessarily bridesmaids

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@ashleyk_xox:  You are almost there! Take a deep breath, in a few days you’ll be a happily married woman and all of this wedding drama will be behind you.

 

But I completely feel you. No help here either. It’s stressful and it sucks, but you’re not alone.

Post # 7
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Newbee

OHH unthinkable!

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’m sorry 🙁 I don’t have a wedding party so I often feel similar. My Fiance has helped with the decision making, but I definitely feel you on the DIY projects and things like that. It’s tough.

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2013

My Fiance and I live in two different states, my sisters (the ones in state) are in school and don’t have extra time to help me, I’m DIY-ing nearly everything, and I don’t even have a bridal party or friends who can help. Fortunately, I’ve got a few months to go, so I can spread out the wedding projects a bit, but I completely understand where you’re coming from! Tons of hugs and well wishes are going your way.

I wish I lived near you so I could help out.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: Central Park

I’m right there with you! I did 99% of the planning and DIY alone. Which I was fine with. We just informed the bridal party a week ago that they nee to be at the venue at 8 am to decorate and my sister threw a fit and refuses to come until noon. I was so ticked at her because she has done nothing, she didn’t even hav to buy her dress. But in the end you just have to let it go and trust that the many months of planning will work out and if one or two small details get missed it won’t matter and no one will notice but you.

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