Post # 17
My Fiance told me that he is just excited to marry me, and he will be happy with any decision I make. But then, I set up an appointment that he can’t make it to and he acts hurt. I think that he says that he doesn’t want an opinion just to make sure that I get everything that I want, but it’s so adorable to see him get excited about something. Example: Yesterday we went and saw our favorite reception and ceremony venues. He spent hours making 3D maps of the areas and messing with table placement.
Post # 18
I know exactly how that is! Not to mention my bridesmaids are all so far away i dont have much help there either…i feel like i dont have anyone to talk to and im supposed to bottle it up 🙁
Post # 19
I have totally been feeling that way this week! Your totally not alone.
Post # 20
I broke down at the Justice of Peace’s house over this issue. Fiance is only off one day a week so when we actually have to go out and take care of things, I hold off the whole week so we can do it together, Then we go out to do things and he’s basically a deer in headlights.
We went to talk to JoP about venues and he basically waved his hand, nodded, and said “whatever she wants.” And I had no clue whatsoever. JoP left for a second to get something for us and I began crying and stammered something like “I have no clue what I’m doing, we’re supposed to be in on this together and you don’t have an opinion about ANYTHING!!” That poor JoP, I think I made things awkward for her. I have a feeling she heard me and stayed out of the room longer than necessary to let me collect myself in private.
i found out later he was keeping quiet because he was afraid I wouldn’t like his ideas and he didn’t want to make me unhappy. But now he contributes equally so it’s better.
Post # 21
8 months until our wedding date ,i feel completely alone, on putting this wedding together specially when i dont even get and answer from him when i asked for his opinions. I just wish he will help me out, at least with ideas. is getting really frustrated.
do all the brides go through this