(Closed) Does anyone knows how to interpret dreams?

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

From what I’ve seen on the boards and experienced myself, these type of dreams are fairly common. You’ve been thinking about the topic a lot and your mind is trying to organize the information. I’m not really a dream interpreter, but I would take it for face value. You’re obviously working on being patient, but it’s hard. It feels like it will never be your turn. You also feel like maybe your SO isn’t sold on the whole marriage idea, or he feels like you’re basiclally already married so there’s no point in the formality (you think he feels that way, since it’s your dream lol). Also, maybe you already feel like you’re married, but that you missed out on the engagement phase of the relationship. 

 

Just a few personal guesses. Hope it helps πŸ™‚ 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

After going through a breakup a few years ago, I had a dream about what life would have been like had we stayed together. It was absolutely awful.  Yet, I know there was truth to the dream.  My sub-conscious and God were trying to tell me it was for the best.

 

I think it’s probable that your sub-conscious is realizing you’re the only one who wants to get married in this relationship and that no one else is supporting you in it.

 

I do put a lot of weight on dreams like this, so if I were you, I would ask yourself if being with your SO and wanting to marry him is truly right for you.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

The only thing I know about dreams is in regards to dreaming about people from your past.

But I had a dream last night my SO said he would propose in six months… I know it really doesn’t mean anything and woke up sad that it wasn’t real! I guess now I’m just hopeful it will be sooner instead =)

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@lsimpson:  I wouldn’t put much weight on this. Dreams like this probably don’t mean anything except that you’re thinking about it too much πŸ™‚

Post # 8
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Helper bee

@Kat_Kit2000:  +11111 I think you are spot-on with your suggestion.

 

 

@lsimpson:  As a psychologist (we did do some stuff on dreams during uni), I am with Kat_Kit2000. Your brain is dealing with stuff you are going through on a day to day base. If you’ve been thinking a lot about marriage and engagement, you actually have to process all of that during your sleep. Hence your dream isn’t surprising. Don’t put too much weight on it. If you start thinking now, that you will never get married to your SO, you might just trigger it (self-fulfilling prophecy!). Try to laugh about how your mind/subconscious/brain (whatever you like to call it) played a funny joke on you. Hope, we could help you a little. Don’t get disheartened!.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

@Aprilsfool:  haha thanks! I’m actually studying to be a psychologist too lol 

Post # 11
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Helper bee

@Kat_Kit2000:  cool stuff! πŸ˜‰ what Year are you in? And where about do you study? I love to know about all those different degree programmesaround the world πŸ˜‰

 

@lsimpson:  i think your Dream was hilarious! The priest took care that you were having a home for when you eventually get married! You could go on and overanalyze if you wanted: do you live together, do you wanna buy a property etc. But that would take the fun out of the Dream πŸ™‚

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

@Aprilsfool:  I’m in the US in grad school. Year 2 out of 5. Did you get your degree/license already?

@lsimpson:  Sorry to be taking over the board lol Have you had any other related dreams or did you talk to your SO about it?

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