Post # 1
So we’ve all heard about some pretty horrible FMIL’s, but who has a really great relationship with their future in laws?
I don’t think I could ask for a more understanding and loving person to be my Future Mother-In-Law or Future Father-In-Law, for that matter. They have always treated me as a part of their family. Fiance jokes that they love me more than they love him! They are just incredible people.
I will say, my mother doesn’t exactly treat Fiance with nearly the love and respect he deserves, and it makes me really sad. She’s not horrible to him, but she could be a little more warm and welcoming.
Post # 3
I for one keep reading all the posts about a horrible Future Mother-In-Law or Future Father-In-Law and I can’t help but be grateful that my future in-laws. They’ve taken me in to their family like a daughter and have been extremely loving and supportive of both of us. They’ve been referring to me as the future daughter in-law since before Fiance and I even got engaged. My Future Mother-In-Law went dress shopping with me, she’s been to bridal fairs with me all with a smile on her face. They have a key to our house but they’ve never abused it in any way, she’s the only one we trust to feed our furbabies while we’re out of town. I love my in-laws and can’t imagine having any other ones.
Post # 4
Me! Me! I absolutely could not have asked for better in-laws. They are the epitome of class, charm, and hospitality. They are SO welcoming and have never ever treated me like anything other than there own daughter. I thank the Good Lord everyday for the wonderful relationship I have with them and how well both of our families get along even though they are COMPLETE opposites! ha!
Post # 5
I love my Future Mother-In-Law she is wonderful and I am so happy to have her. It makes me not having my mother anymore hurt a little less.
Post # 6
Yes! I love love love my future in-laws. Almost from day one, they treated me like part of the family. I know how lucky I am because I previously dated someone whose mother did nothing but disrespect me. The fact that his parents are so amazing makes me feel even more lucky to be marrying him!
Post # 7
She’s not perfect, neither am I, but I am lucky to have her for a Mother-In-Law.
Post # 8
I’m so glad to hear that some of you actually like your FMIL! I always cringe when I read some of the stories about some of the relationships between some Bee’s brides and MILs. I have such love and respect for my DIL and my FDIL and hope they feel the same about me! Having had only sons, I can’t tell you how nice it is to have new “daughters” to hang out with occasionally and do girl stuff with!
Post # 9
futuremominlaw – I can’t imagine that they don’t feel the same about you; you sound wonderful.
Post # 10
I do! Mine is the best 🙂 She’s so enthusiastic and non-judgmental about everything we want–both in the wedding and in our lives. I couldn’t ask for more!
Post # 11
Future Mother-In-Law and I had a couple difference of opinions and I was pretty certain for a while that she didn’t like me but she made it very clear I did. Her and I get along great now and I love her to death!
Post # 12
I think that we have a very good relationship with my in-laws as well. I am very lucky to have a Future Mother-In-Law & Future Father-In-Law who treat me, and always have, with love respect and truly consider me part of their family.
@futuremom – My Future Mother-In-Law has told me the same thing!! She has three boys; she got me a beautiful music box for my birthday which said “a daughter is love” and was really excited she got to get those things now.
Post # 13
Yes i love my soon to be inlaws! from day one they treated me like their own daughter… they are always telling me how they love that their son is finally happy and that they have never seen him smile so much <3
We have our moments… but who doesn’t have moments with their normal parents lol. There are some things they say that i disagree on but that doesn’t matter.
I couldn’t have asked for better inlaws!
We actually had them over yesterday (his dad was coming to help fix our decking) and me and his mum sat inside for about 5hours and just chatted. it’s good catching up with them 🙂
Post # 14
Count me in! I LOVE my FMIL! She is the best! Even way before we bought a house and got engaged she was so great to me! She treats me like the daughter she never had! When we got engaged she cried and told me she was so excited that I will finally be her daughter! When we were in the process of buying our house two years ago she started a piggie bank for me and stuffed it with money! By the time we went to TD and cashed in the bank it had $300 in it! Just for me! She is now doing the same for the wedding! She is such a doll! Couldn’t be more happy with her!!! Everytime I read stories about crazy MIL’s I always count my lucky stars!
Post # 15
I love my MIL! She is like my adopted mommy! I miss her so much since we moved.
Post # 16
Love love love! We just recently got engaged and she asked me yesterday if I would like to call her mom. So sweet