(Closed) Does Bachlorette invite mean wedding invite??

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
5400 posts
Bee Keeper

@LBalazi:  yeah I think that’s a no-no. Why would you even want anyone at your bachelorette party you wouldn’t want at your wedding?

Post # 4
2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Yes, you should only invite people to pre-wedding parties if they are invited to the wedding.

Post # 5
9114 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Yes. Only invite those you want at your wedding to your bachelorette party.

Post # 6
206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I think you should only invite people who you will invite to the wedding.

Post # 7
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

Agree with PPs!

Post # 8
955 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Let’s just dig a hole and throw Emily Post in it.


Proper etiquette aside, like the above poster said, why would you want somebody at the bachelorette party who isn’t invited to the wedding?  It is going to make it awkward for everyone.  The bride would feel guilty every time she mentioned the upcoming wedding, and the people who were in attendance for this party would just kinda feel they didn’t make the cut.


So yeah….I guess I took the long way around the horse to give you your answer.  I say no on the inviting people to the bachelorette party if they aren’t invited to the wedding.  (Of course, typically, where I live the ONLY women to attend the bachelorette party is the bridesmaids.)



Post # 9
1257 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yes, that is absolutely rude.

Post # 10
9689 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Yeah…you should only invite people to pre-wedding parties (bachelorette, bridal shower, etc) who are/would be invited to the wedding.  That would be way rude to invite someone to your bachelorette party and not the wedding!  I can’t even imagine having a friend I would be close enough to to invite to a bachelorette but not the wedding.

Unless there was some crazy circumstance or something.  To me it would say that you’re ok to come buy me drinks/gifts at my bachelorette party but not good enough to come to the wedding as my guest.

Post # 12
4979 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

@LBalazi:  You can go party with the girls… just don’t call it a bachelorette party!

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