(Closed) does BJ get easier with practice? TMI

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 16
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Bumble bee

Can I just say, I love this thread. My advice was gonna be exactly what

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@tksjewelry: and
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@mwitter80: said, so I’ll ditto them. Also, play/lick/rub on the frenulum, it’s the area on the underside of the penis where the extra skin from the head comes together, and kind of forms a little triangle shape. And, I too, will pass on what my SO says, “Don’t forget the boys. The boys (balls) need some love, too. Rub ’em, lick ’em, whatever, just touch ’em.”

Have fun, OP!

Post # 17
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I will also add (TMI, I’m sure) that once you have the previous suggestions masteres, try

1. use the flats if your knuckles, between the 1st and 2nd joint, to apply gentle but firm massage or pressure to his perineum (taint), massaging his prostate.

2. Add variety while maintaining your rhythm by angling your head so his end pushes against your cheek. The difference in texture, plus the resistance he’ll experience will help him along.

(don’t judge, I’m just a girl who likes to please her man)

Post # 18
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

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@Wonderwoman217: i try and stay away from the boys…i  have to save some tricks for the wedding night Wink

Post # 19
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

haha yes it does get easier! I actually enjoy doing it at this point. But it definitely takes practice. Just try lots of different things and see what works for him. Or straight out ask him what he likes.

Post # 21
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Don’t know if anyone’s mentioned it yet, so there is this soft spot on the bottom/back of the penis thats directly below the ridge of where the head meets the shaft. You can press on it a little bit with your finger while sucking the tip (use just a little bit of pressure, it will feel soft like the soft spot on a baby’s head!) or, and this is more complicated, while you have his d*** in your mouth, stick your tongue up to that spot and focus on that with your tongue.

Wow that was word porn, sorry.

Post # 22
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@-princesspretti24– LMAO…”Now i see how we all got our rocks!!”.

Lots of good tips here! I 2nd them all… My recommendation is ENTHUSIASM! I actually enjoy giving my husband BJ’s and he knows it!  

Post # 23
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m getting married in like 2 months….

Can I get a diagram on some of these gems? I’m trying to make C shapes with my fingers and imagining a dick…

LOL

Post # 24
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

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@Eva Peron:

Post # 24
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@Eva Peron: *in an old lady health class teacher voice* Well, take your banana, and firmly grab it at the base. Lol! 

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@al1988: Yes, they get easier…eventually you stop giving them.Surprised Hehe, only joking.

All these ladies have really good tips. And I agree with 

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@Wonderwoman217:, give the ‘boys’ some love. For real, 10 seconds and you’ve made his day. 

Post # 25
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

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@Eva Peron:  LOL, sorry, I just couldn’t help myself

Post # 26
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@tksjewelry: LOL it was your tip that I was imagining ! Thank you hahaha . Love it.

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@indibee: hahahaha. back to sex ed!

Post # 27
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

This is going to sound really weird, but try putting a few of your fingers together and practicing on them.  If YOU feel your teeth, play around with what you’re doing until you can’t feel them (put your lips over your teeth). 

The idea about how you bite into ice cream is a good idea!

Post # 28
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

You might hate this idea but this is what helped me. WATCH PORN!!! I watched some free porn on the internet and watched what they were doing and it helped me learn what to do and not to do. After this my dh told me I got so much better at it.

Also ask your Fiance what feels good and what doesn’t.

Post # 29
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

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@blldgpuppy: I agree! If you’re comfortable with it, watch some porn! I’m sure there’s some “How to give a BJ” videos out there. I would avoid the “porn star” videos though because they are so fake. I would try to find a “real” couple to watch and learn from. If you need some websites, PM me! haha 🙂 

Good luck! And yes, it does get better!

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